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← Extensive preparation before having kids is unnecessary since parents have months to adjust as needs arise.

17 connected korrents · 12 moments from 25 May 2013 to 19 Oct 2026.

Everything filed under family family Everything filed under Attachment theory Attachment theory Everything filed under gender equality gender equality Everything filed under Psychodynamic therapy Psychodynamic therapy Everything filed under demographics demographics Everything filed under AI and jobs AI and jobs Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Extensive preparation before having kids is unnecessary since parents have months to adjust as needs arise. Extensive preparation before having kidsis unnecessary since parents have monthsto adjust as needs arise. Last stated a year ago 18 Sept 2025 NE Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: Parents have an obligation to talk up having children, because the case against is made a thousand times louder than the case for. — tap to centre the map on it Parents have an obligation to talkup having children, because the caseagainst is made a thousand timeslouder than the case for. Last stated a year ago 12 Jul 2025 DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-09-18 — tap for who they are DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2025-07-12 — tap for who they are Same subject: The difficulty of raising more children increases gradually enough that parents adapt to it without noticing. — tap to centre the map on it The difficulty of raising morechildren increases gradually enoughthat parents adapt to it withoutnoticing. Last stated a year ago 18 Sept 2025 NE Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: The lack of a policy agenda for families with young kids is likely part of why US fertility rates are at record lows. — tap to centre the map on it The lack of a policy agenda forfamilies with young kids is likelypart of why US fertility rates areat record lows. Last stated 2 weeks ago 19 Oct 2026 NS Natasha Sarin — holds since 2026-10-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: Expecting AI or longer lives to arrive in time makes people skip having a plan for falling birth rates at all. — tap to centre the map on it Expecting AI or longer lives toarrive in time makes people skiphaving a plan for falling birthrates at all. Last stated 3 years ago 17 Jan 2024 RH Robin Hanson — holds since 2024-01-17 — tap for who they are Same subject: No one should pressure another person about whether to have children, since it is too personal a decision to be anyone else's business. — tap to centre the map on it No one should pressure anotherperson about whether to havechildren, since it is too personal adecision to be anyone else'sbusiness. Last stated 3 years ago 23 May 2023 TU Tim Urban — holds since 2023-05-23 — tap for who they are Same subject: Having children is not a niche or selfish lifestyle choice, and people without children shouldn't bear the costs of a structure that fails everyone. — tap to centre the map on it Having children is not a niche orselfish lifestyle choice, and peoplewithout children shouldn't bear thecosts of a structure that failseveryone. Last stated 7 months ago 6 Apr 2026 MA Mari Andrew — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Expecting parents should be required to take a mandatory course before caring for a newborn. — tap to centre the map on it Expecting parents should be requiredto take a mandatory course beforecaring for a newborn. Last stated 3 years ago 23 May 2023 TU Tim Urban — holds since 2023-05-23 — tap for who they are Same subject: Expecting a layoff in advance provides little psychological protection against its effects. — tap to centre the map on it Expecting a layoff in advanceprovides little psychologicalprotection against its effects. Last stated 2 months ago 20 Sept 2026 RH Rob Henderson — holds since 2026-09-20 — tap for who they are Same subject: 'Racism' and 'sexism' properly name systematic disadvantage, not merely prejudice against anyone. — tap to centre the map on it 'Racism' and 'sexism' properly namesystematic disadvantage, not merelyprejudice against anyone. Last stated 13 years ago 25 May 2013 AS Alom Shaha — holds since 2013-05-25 — tap for who they are Same subject: A first advantage of sexual equality is having the most universal human relation governed by justice — tap to centre the map on it A first advantage of sexual equalityis having the most universal humanrelation governed by justice JM John Stuart Mill — holds since c. 1861–1869 — tap for who they are Same subject: A home that holds women at a primitive level holds back those who keep them there — tap to centre the map on it A home that holds women at aprimitive level holds back those whokeep them there CG Charlotte Perkins Gilman — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are Same subject: A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment. — tap to centre the map on it A person cannot both protectthemselves emotionally and buildintimacy with a partner at the samemoment. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. — tap to centre the map on it A pursue-withdraw dynamic betweenpartners is self-sustaining and doesnot require either person to be atfault. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Attachment patterns tend to surface most clearly in the situations that carry the greatest emotional risk. — tap to centre the map on it Attachment patterns tend to surfacemost clearly in the situations thatcarry the greatest emotional risk. Last stated 5 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it "Evidence-based therapy" is abranding term rather than ascientific one, and in practice itis a code word for "notpsychodynamic". Last stated 13 years ago 2 Oct 2013 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: A person strives for value and meaning, not for pleasure — tap to centre the map on it A person strives for value andmeaning, not for pleasure VF Viktor Frankl — holds since c. 1950–1997 — tap for who they are Same subject: Avoiding conflict does not actually resolve it, so suppressed feelings build up until they surface all at once. — tap to centre the map on it Avoiding conflict does not actuallyresolve it, so suppressed feelingsbuild up until they surface all atonce. Last stated 5 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Extensive preparation before having kids is unnecessary since parents have months to adjust as needs arise. Last stated 18 Sept 2025 · a year ago Holds Nat Eliason Read this korrent →