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Children, partners and inheritance: the peak experience, and what to hand on.

What people on korrents have said about family, newest first — 7 positions from 4 people.

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  1. DH

    David Heinemeier Hansson quoted

    Creating life with another human you love is the peak experience of being on the planet.

    I'm excited about a lot of things. I love building things, and I love hobbies, and I love all sorts of stuff. But creating life with another human that you love is literally the peak experience of being on the planet.

    DHH: Future of Programming, AI, Agentic Engineering, Vibe Coding & Linux | Lex Fridman Podcast #501youtube.com 28th of 41 in this recording

  2. 11 months earlier
  3. LF

    Lex Fridman quoted

    Competition drives skill, and sparing young people the struggle only defers it.

    it seems like struggle is a part of life, either you do it earlier or you do it later. And it’s true, that’s such a good point that competition does seem to be a really powerful driver of skill development

    Pavel Durov: Telegram, Freedom, Censorship, Money, Power & Human Nature | Lex Fridman Podcast #482youtube.com 21st of 28 in this recording

  4. PD

    Pavel Durov quoted

    Overabundance paralyses motivation and willpower, which is why his wealth will be split among more than a hundred heirs and only reach them as adults.

    Yeah, I think overabundance paralyzes motivation and willpower. It's extremely harmful, particularly for young boys, to grow up in an environment where they can be proud, not of their own achievements, but of their father's achievements or their father's wealth.

    Pavel Durov: Telegram, Freedom, Censorship, Money, Power & Human Nature | Lex Fridman Podcast #482youtube.com 24th of 28 in this recording

  5. 3 months earlier
  6. DH

    David Heinemeier Hansson quoted

    Parents have an obligation to talk up having children, because the case against is made a thousand times louder than the case for.

    those of us who've chosen to do the traditional thing to get married and to have children have an obligation to kind of talk it up a little bit, which would've seen ridiculous again 50 years ago that you'd have to talk up something so fundamental of that.

    DHH: Future of Programming, AI, Ruby on Rails, Productivity & Parenting | Lex Fridman Podcast #474youtube.com 35th of 36 in this recording

  7. DH

    David Heinemeier Hansson quoted

    Framing childcare as unpaid labour, and a mother who stays home as a failure of feminist ambition, is a complete dead end.

    But there's something that's just not right in the analysis that children are a burden and that if woman chooses to stay at home with the kids, that that some sort of failure mode of feminist ambition. I think that's actually a complete dead end.

    DHH: Future of Programming, AI, Ruby on Rails, Productivity & Parenting | Lex Fridman Podcast #474youtube.com 37th of 36 in this recording

    ambition

  8. 8 weeks earlier
  9. DS

    Derek Sivers quoted

    Kids have their own lives and parents should not try to apply their rules to them.

    But it's a great reminder that our kids have their own life, that we should not try to apply our rules to them.

    sive.rs

  10. 8 months earlier
  11. DH

    David Heinemeier Hansson quoted

    Parents have an obligation to talk up having children, because the case against is made a thousand times louder than the case for.

    I think we need to correct that ratio somewhat by some testimony of just how God damn amazing it is to literally create life

    DHH Is Right About Everythingyoutube.com 7th of 8 in this recording