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Maybe Our Pain Was Not Without Purpose

Elizabeth Day · 23 Oct 2026

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  1. The world of infertility is steeped in the tyranny of maybe. First, you feel like a failure for not carrying a baby to term. Then you feel like a failure for not having chosen the right option.
  2. Not because it was perfect. But because it marked a meaningful direction of travel.

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