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← The difficulty of raising more children increases gradually enough that parents adapt to it without noticing.

17 connected korrents · 12 moments from 25 May 2013 to 13 Aug 2026.

Everything filed under family family Everything filed under Attachment theory Attachment theory Everything filed under gender equality gender equality Everything filed under behavioural science behavioural science Everything filed under Psychodynamic therapy Psychodynamic therapy Everything filed under demographics demographics Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: The difficulty of raising more children increases gradually enough that parents adapt to it without noticing. The difficulty of raising more childrenincreases gradually enough that parentsadapt to it without noticing. Last stated a year ago 18 Sept 2025 NE Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: Parents have an obligation to talk up having children, because the case against is made a thousand times louder than the case for. — tap to centre the map on it Parents have an obligation to talkup having children, because the caseagainst is made a thousand timeslouder than the case for. Last stated a year ago 12 Jul 2025 DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-09-18 — tap for who they are DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2025-07-12 — tap for who they are Same subject: Parenting has less influence on how children turn out than most parents assume. — tap to centre the map on it Parenting has less influence on howchildren turn out than most parentsassume. Last stated a year ago 24 Oct 2025 TU Tim Urban — holds since 2025-10-24 — tap for who they are Same subject: Attitude, not the surrounding circumstances, determines how hard parenting feels. — tap to centre the map on it Attitude, not the surroundingcircumstances, determines how hardparenting feels. Last stated a year ago 18 Sept 2025 NE Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: Improving entertainment technology raises the bar parenthood has to clear, because people have children when it looks more fun than the alternatives. — tap to centre the map on it Improving entertainment technologyraises the bar parenthood has toclear, because people have childrenwhen it looks more fun than thealternatives. Last stated a year ago 1 Jul 2025 AE Alice Evans — holds since 2025-07-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: Extensive preparation before having kids is unnecessary since parents have months to adjust as needs arise. — tap to centre the map on it Extensive preparation before havingkids is unnecessary since parentshave months to adjust as needsarise. Last stated a year ago 18 Sept 2025 NE Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: Many people refuse to act on falling birth rates because raising them is associated with people they consider enemies. — tap to centre the map on it Many people refuse to act on fallingbirth rates because raising them isassociated with people they considerenemies. Last stated 3 years ago 17 Jan 2024 RH Robin Hanson — holds since 2024-01-17 — tap for who they are Same subject: The growth-mindset message may have stressed effort too much and made change sound too easy — tap to centre the map on it The growth-mindset message may havestressed effort too much and madechange sound too easy Last stated 11 years ago 22 Sept 2015 CD Carol Dweck — holds since 2015-09-22 — tap for who they are Same subject: Having children does not make people better: parental love concentrates concern on a few and leaves less of it for everyone else. — tap to centre the map on it Having children does not make peoplebetter: parental love concentratesconcern on a few and leaves less ofit for everyone else. Last stated 3 months ago 3 Aug 2026 PB Paul Bloom — holds since 2026-08-03 — tap for who they are Same subject: 'Racism' and 'sexism' properly name systematic disadvantage, not merely prejudice against anyone. — tap to centre the map on it 'Racism' and 'sexism' properly namesystematic disadvantage, not merelyprejudice against anyone. Last stated 13 years ago 25 May 2013 AS Alom Shaha — holds since 2013-05-25 — tap for who they are Same subject: A first advantage of sexual equality is having the most universal human relation governed by justice — tap to centre the map on it A first advantage of sexual equalityis having the most universal humanrelation governed by justice JM John Stuart Mill — holds since c. 1861–1869 — tap for who they are Same subject: A home that holds women at a primitive level holds back those who keep them there — tap to centre the map on it A home that holds women at aprimitive level holds back those whokeep them there CG Charlotte Perkins Gilman — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are Same subject: A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment. — tap to centre the map on it A person cannot both protectthemselves emotionally and buildintimacy with a partner at the samemoment. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. — tap to centre the map on it A pursue-withdraw dynamic betweenpartners is self-sustaining and doesnot require either person to be atfault. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Attachment patterns tend to surface most clearly in the situations that carry the greatest emotional risk. — tap to centre the map on it Attachment patterns tend to surfacemost clearly in the situations thatcarry the greatest emotional risk. Last stated 5 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it "Evidence-based therapy" is abranding term rather than ascientific one, and in practice itis a code word for "notpsychodynamic". Last stated 13 years ago 2 Oct 2013 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: A person strives for value and meaning, not for pleasure — tap to centre the map on it A person strives for value andmeaning, not for pleasure VF Viktor Frankl — holds since c. 1950–1997 — tap for who they are Same subject: Avoiding conflict does not actually resolve it, so suppressed feelings build up until they surface all at once. — tap to centre the map on it Avoiding conflict does not actuallyresolve it, so suppressed feelingsbuild up until they surface all atonce. Last stated 5 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are
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At the centre The difficulty of raising more children increases gradually enough that parents adapt to it without noticing. Last stated 18 Sept 2025 · a year ago Holds Nat Eliason Read this korrent →