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Read this korrent: When a relationship changes, the partners start to change each other through safe connection, which is where people grow.
When a relationship changes, the partners start to change each other through safe connection, which is where people grow.
Last stated 2 years ago
30 Apr 2024
SJ
Sue Johnson — holds since 2024-04-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to. — tap to centre the map on it
As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to.
Last stated a year ago
7 May 2025
RS
Richard Schwartz — holds since 2025-05-07 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Couples therapy is an amazing arena for change, because a changed relationship changes both partners. — tap to centre the map on it
Couples therapy is an amazing arena for change, because a changed relationship changes both partners.
Last stated 2 years ago
30 Apr 2024
SJ
Sue Johnson — holds since 2024-04-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Changing your own behavior can shift a relationship or household atmosphere and lead others to change too. — tap to centre the map on it
Changing your own behavior can shift a relationship or household atmosphere and lead others to change too.
Last stated 3 months ago
23 Jul 2026
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Gretchen Rubin — holds since 2026-07-23 — tap for who they are
Same subject: People freeze into relationship roles for predictability, but ongoing internal change eventually makes those roles confining. — tap to centre the map on it
People freeze into relationship roles for predictability, but ongoing internal change eventually makes those roles confining.
Last stated 4 months ago
11 Jun 2026
SC
Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The core of change is being more open, aware and actively engaged in a meaningful life, in relationships and in the body. — tap to centre the map on it
The core of change is being more open, aware and actively engaged in a meaningful life, in relationships and in the body.
Last stated a year ago
22 Sept 2025
SH
Steven C. Hayes — holds since 2025-09-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Resolving workplace conflict is better achieved by changing the relationship itself than by trying to change the other person. — tap to centre the map on it
Resolving workplace conflict is better achieved by changing the relationship itself than by trying to change the other person.
Last stated 2 months ago
11 Aug 2026
KN
Ken Norton — holds since 2026-08-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Within about a year everyone's job will change, though people will not lose their positions. — tap to centre the map on it
Within about a year everyone's job will change, though people will not lose their positions.
Last stated a month ago
10 Sept 2026
EV
Elena Verna — holds since 2026-09-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy. — tap to centre the map on it
Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy.
Last stated 4 months ago
31 May 2026
AW
Annie Wright — holds since 2026-05-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints. — tap to centre the map on it
A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints.
Last stated 4 weeks ago
17 Sept 2026
VR
Venkatesh Rao — holds since 2026-09-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally. — tap to centre the map on it
A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally.
Last stated 9 months ago
25 Jan 2026
JC
Jason Cohen — holds since 2026-01-25 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck. — tap to centre the map on it
A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck.
Last stated 4 years ago
9 Aug 2022
GK
Gary Klein — holds since 2022-08-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it
"Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic".
Last stated 13 years ago
2 Oct 2013
JS
Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable. — tap to centre the map on it
A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable.
Last stated 3 years ago
15 May 2023
SJ
Sue Johnson — holds since 2023-05-15 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated a year ago
8 Sept 2025
GS
Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work. — tap to centre the map on it
A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work.
Last stated 2 years ago
11 Sept 2024
SM
Scott D. Miller — holds since 2024-09-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences. — tap to centre the map on it
EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences.
Last stated 13 years ago
1 Mar 2014
FS
Francine Shapiro — holds since 2014-03-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing. — tap to centre the map on it
EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing.
Last stated 16 years ago
19 Mar 2011
FS
Francine Shapiro — holds since 2011-03-19 — tap for who they are
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When a relationship changes, the partners start to change each other through safe connection, which is where people grow.
Last stated 30 Apr 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Sue Johnson
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As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to.
Last stated 7 May 2025 · a year ago
Holds Richard Schwartz
Similar wording
Couples therapy is an amazing arena for change, because a changed relationship changes both partners.
Last stated 30 Apr 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Sue Johnson
Similar wording
Changing your own behavior can shift a relationship or household atmosphere and lead others to change too.
Last stated 23 Jul 2026 · 3 months ago
Holds Gretchen Rubin
Similar wording
People freeze into relationship roles for predictability, but ongoing internal change eventually makes those roles confining.
Last stated 11 Jun 2026 · 4 months ago
Holds Sasha Chapin
Similar wording
The core of change is being more open, aware and actively engaged in a meaningful life, in relationships and in the body.
Last stated 22 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Steven C. Hayes
Similar wording
Resolving workplace conflict is better achieved by changing the relationship itself than by trying to change the other person.
Last stated 11 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Ken Norton
Similar wording
Within about a year everyone's job will change, though people will not lose their positions.
Last stated 10 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Elena Verna
Similar wording
Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy.
Last stated 31 May 2026 · 4 months ago
Holds Annie Wright
Same subject: behavioural science
A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints.
Last stated 17 Sept 2026 · 4 weeks ago
Holds Venkatesh Rao
Same subject: behavioural science
A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally.
Last stated 25 Jan 2026 · 9 months ago
Holds Jason Cohen
Same subject: behavioural science
A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck.
Last stated 9 Aug 2022 · 4 years ago
Holds Gary Klein
Same subject: Psychotherapy
"Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic".
Last stated 2 Oct 2013 · 13 years ago
Holds Jonathan Shedler
Same subject: Psychotherapy
A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable.
Last stated 15 May 2023 · 3 years ago
Holds Sue Johnson
Same subject: Psychotherapy
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated 8 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Guy Spier
Same subject: EMDR
A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work.
Last stated 11 Sept 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Scott D. Miller
Same subject: EMDR
EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences.
Last stated 1 Mar 2014 · 13 years ago
Holds Francine Shapiro
Same subject: EMDR
EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing.
Last stated 19 Mar 2011 · 16 years ago
Holds Francine Shapiro