Robert Waldinger
Psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and Zen priest; director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, and co-author with Marc Schulz of The Good Life (2023).
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Helping others benefits the helper: generosity and happiness feed each other in an upward spiral.
Their wordsHelping others benefits the one who helps. There is both a neural and a practical link between generosity and happiness.
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Their wordsIf we step back and look at all 84 years of the Harvard Study and boil the findings down to a single principle for living, one life investment that is supported by similar findings across a wide variety of other studies, it would be this: good relationships keep us healthier and happier, period.
↗The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, five key insights (with Marc Schulz), Next Big Idea Clubnextbigideaclub.com 1st of 3 in this piece
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Relationships do not look after themselves: left neglected, they wither like unused muscles.
Their wordsWe tend to think that once we establish friendships and intimate relationships, they will take care of themselves. But like muscles, neglected relationships atrophy.
↗The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, five key insights (with Marc Schulz), Next Big Idea Clubnextbigideaclub.com 2nd of 3 in this piece
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Their wordsIt is almost impossible to have one without the other. A good life, in fact, is forged from precisely the things that make it hard.
↗The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, five key insights (with Marc Schulz), Next Big Idea Clubnextbigideaclub.com 3rd of 3 in this piece
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