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← As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to.

17 connected korrents · 12 moments from 21 Sept 2017 to 30 Sept 2026.

Everything filed under friendship friendship Everything filed under happiness happiness Everything filed under motivation motivation Everything filed under ambition ambition Everything filed under Addiction Addiction Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to. As people heal they bring more Self intorelationships and stop putting up withwhat they used to. Last stated a year ago 7 May 2025 RS Richard Schwartz — holds since 2025-05-07 — tap for who they are Same subject: When a relationship changes, the partners start to change each other through safe connection, which is where people grow. — tap to centre the map on it When a relationship changes, thepartners start to change each otherthrough safe connection, which iswhere people grow. Last stated 2 years ago 30 Apr 2024 SJ Sue Johnson — holds since 2024-04-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy. — tap to centre the map on it Relationships are healed throughvulnerability, not optimised bystrategy. Last stated 4 months ago 31 May 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-05-31 — tap for who they are Same subject: The more a person forgets themselves in a cause or in love for someone, the more human they are — tap to centre the map on it The more a person forgets themselvesin a cause or in love for someone,the more human they are VF Viktor Frankl — holds since c. 1962–1992 — tap for who they are Same subject: The Self has to earn the parts' trust through apology and a healing experience. — tap to centre the map on it The Self has to earn the parts'trust through apology and a healingexperience. Last stated a year ago 7 May 2025 RS Richard Schwartz — holds since 2025-05-07 — tap for who they are Same subject: Relationships do not look after themselves: left neglected, they wither like unused muscles. — tap to centre the map on it Relationships do not look afterthemselves: left neglected, theywither like unused muscles. Last stated 4 years ago 13 Jan 2023 RW Robert Waldinger — holds since 2023-01-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Relying more and more on one's existing strengths eventually stops being a winning strategy. — tap to centre the map on it Relying more and more on one'sexisting strengths eventually stopsbeing a winning strategy. Last stated 10 months ago 1 Dec 2025 BT Brandon Taylor — holds since 2025-12-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: An addiction is not ended by finding something better to put in its place; you do not stop a problem by replacing it. — tap to centre the map on it An addiction is not ended by findingsomething better to put in itsplace; you do not stop a problem byreplacing it. Last stated 2 years ago 22 Mar 2025 TH ThePrimeagen — holds since 2025-03-22 — tap for who they are Same subject: As communities weaken, we ask a single partner to supply what a village used to. — tap to centre the map on it As communities weaken, we ask asingle partner to supply what avillage used to. Last stated 9 years ago 21 Sept 2017 EP Esther Perel — holds since 2017-09-21 — tap for who they are Same subject: A very long life would not grow boring, because pleasures spaced far enough apart do not wear out. — tap to centre the map on it A very long life would not growboring, because pleasures spaced farenough apart do not wear out. Last stated 4 months ago 16 Jun 2026 PB Paul Bloom — holds since 2026-06-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: After age 30 people start seeing friends less, and older men especially are left with no social life. — tap to centre the map on it After age 30 people start seeingfriends less, and older menespecially are left with no sociallife. Last stated 2 weeks ago 30 Sept 2026 PL Pieter Levels — holds since 2026-09-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: As water takes on the nature of the soil it flows through, a person's wisdom takes on the company they keep — tap to centre the map on it As water takes on the nature of thesoil it flows through, a person'swisdom takes on the company theykeep TH Thiruvalluvar — holds since c. 450–500 CE — tap for who they are Same subject: A free person thinks about death least of all; their wisdom is a meditation on life, not death — tap to centre the map on it A free person thinks about deathleast of all; their wisdom is ameditation on life, not death BS Baruch Spinoza — holds since c. 1661–1675 — tap for who they are Same subject: A good life is forged from the very things that make it hard, since joy and pain in relationships come together. — tap to centre the map on it A good life is forged from the verythings that make it hard, since joyand pain in relationships cometogether. Last stated 4 years ago 13 Jan 2023 RW Robert Waldinger — holds since 2023-01-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: A good life rests on things that demand skill and effort from you, not on goods that arrive requiring none. — tap to centre the map on it A good life rests on things thatdemand skill and effort from you,not on goods that arrive requiringnone. Last stated 2 years ago 16 May 2024 LS L. M. Sacasas — holds since 2024-05-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it A drop in agency is the earliestsign of burnout, arriving before youconsciously notice you are burningout. Last stated 3 years ago 10 Jan 2024 CH Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it A founder who picks an idea becausethe market wants it will give up,because nobody can persist atsomething that was never importantto them. Last stated 2 years ago 19 Jun 2024 AS Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it A general inclination of allhumankind is a perpetual, restlessdesire of power after power thatends only in death TH Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are
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At the centre As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to. Last stated 7 May 2025 · a year ago Holds Richard Schwartz Read this korrent →