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← People pleasing develops as an insecure attachment strategy learned from being valued only for submissiveness.
17 connected korrents · 13 moments from 21 Feb 2017 to 9 Oct 2026.
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9 Aug 2026
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Adam Grant — holds since 2026-08-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Chronic people pleasing stems from a need for others' approval, not genuine concern for them. — tap to centre the map on it Chronic people pleasing stems from a need for others' approval, not genuine concern for them. Last stated 3 months ago
9 Aug 2026
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Adam Grant — holds since 2026-08-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Liking and loving act as a conditioning device that makes the lover ignore faults, comply with wishes, favor associated things and distort other facts — tap to centre the map on it Liking and loving act as a conditioning device that makes the lover ignore faults, comply with wishes, favor associated things and distort other facts
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Charlie Munger — holds since c. 2005 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Rulers who are wise and good take pleasure in their parks; those who are not cannot enjoy them — tap to centre the map on it Rulers who are wise and good take pleasure in their parks; those who are not cannot enjoy them
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Mencius — holds since c. 400–301 BCE — tap for who they are
Same subject: Social systems tend to reward virtuous behavior over time. — tap to centre the map on it Social systems tend to reward virtuous behavior over time. Last stated 6 months ago
2 May 2026
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Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-05-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: We take pleasure in helping a friend because we love them, not the reverse — tap to centre the map on it We take pleasure in helping a friend because we love them, not the reverse
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David Hume — holds since c. 1741–1776 — tap for who they are
Same subject: What we end up liking in a partner is often not what we expected to like, and what we value most is not necessarily what we fantasize about most. — tap to centre the map on it What we end up liking in a partner is often not what we expected to like, and what we value most is not necessarily what we fantasize about most. Last stated a month ago
1 Oct 2026
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Ava Huang — holds since 2026-10-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: People in similar social positions tend to share tastes, and the social hierarchy labels some tastes good and others bad. — tap to centre the map on it People in similar social positions tend to share tastes, and the social hierarchy labels some tastes good and others bad. Last stated 3 years ago
5 Dec 2023
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W. David Marx — holds since 2023-12-05 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others. — tap to centre the map on it Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others. Last stated 2 months ago
18 Sept 2026
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Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-09-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. — tap to centre the map on it A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. Last stated 3 months ago
13 Aug 2026
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Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Attachment patterns tend to surface most clearly in the situations that carry the greatest emotional risk. — tap to centre the map on it Attachment patterns tend to surface most clearly in the situations that carry the greatest emotional risk. Last stated 5 months ago
11 Jun 2026
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Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Couples are never really fighting about the dishes: the fight is where unmet attachment need surfaces. — tap to centre the map on it Couples are never really fighting about the dishes: the fight is where unmet attachment need surfaces. Last stated 5 months ago
31 May 2026
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Annie Wright — holds since 2026-05-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: 2016 was when a large part of the West stopped believing the story that globalization and liberalization would create paradise — tap to centre the map on it 2016 was when a large part of the West stopped believing the story that globalization and liberalization would create paradise Last stated 10 years ago
21 Feb 2017
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Yuval Noah Harari — holds since 2017-02-21 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Accurately informing people about the climate crisis increases their desire to act. — tap to centre the map on it Accurately informing people about the climate crisis increases their desire to act. Last stated 4 weeks ago
9 Oct 2026
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Bill McKibben — holds since 2026-10-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: AI is not the cause of the breakdown of honor codes but an accelerant of a culture shift already under way. — tap to centre the map on it AI is not the cause of the breakdown of honor codes but an accelerant of a culture shift already under way. Last stated 6 months ago
16 May 2026
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Asha Rangappa — holds since 2026-05-16 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "Corporate communications" is now an oxymoron, since nothing meaningful can be communicated by a faceless committee. — tap to centre the map on it "Corporate communications" is now an oxymoron, since nothing meaningful can be communicated by a faceless committee. Last stated 3 years ago
19 Mar 2024
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Lulu Cheng Meservey — holds since 2024-03-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "Hire great people and get out of their way" is dangerous advice for anyone in a leadership role. — tap to centre the map on it "Hire great people and get out of their way" is dangerous advice for anyone in a leadership role. Last stated 2 years ago
17 Dec 2024
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Charity Majors — holds since 2024-12-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "Hire smart people and get out of their way" is bad management advice; leaders should stay closely involved, building trust and working through hard problems with their people to create alignment. — tap to centre the map on it "Hire smart people and get out of their way" is bad management advice; leaders should stay closely involved, building trust and working through hard problems with their people to create alignment. Last stated 4 weeks ago
9 Oct 2026
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Carl Rivera — holds since 2026-10-09 — tap for who they are