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Read this korrent: Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Last stated 5 months ago
9 Jun 2026
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Adam Grant — holds since 2026-06-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: When a system's incentives produce bad behaviour, the blame belongs entirely to whoever created the incentives. — tap to centre the map on it
When a system's incentives produce bad behaviour, the blame belongs entirely to whoever created the incentives.
Last stated 5 years ago
25 Jan 2022
MA
Marc Andreessen — holds since 2022-01-25 — tap for who they are
Same subject: When someone gets the same negative reaction from many different people, the more likely explanation is their own behavior, not everyone else's. — tap to centre the map on it
When someone gets the same negative reaction from many different people, the more likely explanation is their own behavior, not everyone else's.
Last stated 2 months ago
14 Sept 2026
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Ava Huang — holds since 2026-09-14 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us — tap to centre the map on it
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 133 years ago
22 Mar 1894
RT
Rabindranath Tagore — holds since 1894-03-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: To understand people unlike us, listening to what they say works better than assuming we know what it is like to be them. — tap to centre the map on it
To understand people unlike us, listening to what they say works better than assuming we know what it is like to be them.
Last stated 3 years ago
2 Jan 2024
PB
Paul Bloom — holds since 2024-01-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Disasters come from organisational conditions, not from bad individuals, so blaming a person prevents the fix. — tap to centre the map on it
Disasters come from organisational conditions, not from bad individuals, so blaming a person prevents the fix.
Last stated 14 years ago
13 Jan 2013
WH
Wayne Hale — holds since 2013-01-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Even when advice is understood and believed, people discount it by assuming their own case is the exception. — tap to centre the map on it
Even when advice is understood and believed, people discount it by assuming their own case is the exception.
Last stated 4 years ago
14 Mar 2023
AM
Adam Mastroianni — holds since 2023-03-14 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person. — tap to centre the map on it
Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person.
Last stated a month ago
2 Oct 2026
PP
Priya Parker — holds since 2026-10-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Finding yourself attacking a particular group referred to in the post is evidence that you are evil. — tap to centre the map on it
Finding yourself attacking a particular group referred to in the post is evidence that you are evil.
Last stated 2 months ago
13 Sept 2026
PG
Paul Graham — holds since 2026-09-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Imaginary social trends can spuriously shape people's real beliefs and behaviors. — tap to centre the map on it
Imaginary social trends can spuriously shape people's real beliefs and behaviors.
Last stated 5 years ago
7 Mar 2022
AM
Adam Mastroianni — holds since 2022-03-07 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Public scrutiny of a new technology tends to jump only after a deadly incident, otherwise rising slowly over decades — tap to centre the map on it
Public scrutiny of a new technology tends to jump only after a deadly incident, otherwise rising slowly over decades
Last stated 10 months ago
15 Jan 2026
MB
Miles Brundage — holds since 2026-01-15 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Public sentiment is turning against tech companies that force unwanted features on their users. — tap to centre the map on it
Public sentiment is turning against tech companies that force unwanted features on their users.
Last stated 6 months ago
28 Apr 2026
AD
Anil Dash — holds since 2026-04-28 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Public sentiment on AI is shifting steadily toward greater concern about its risks, not less. — tap to centre the map on it
Public sentiment on AI is shifting steadily toward greater concern about its risks, not less.
Last stated 2 months ago
11 Sept 2026
CN
Casey Newton — holds since 2026-09-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Stereotypes of the past lead people to misperceive attitude change, and those misperceptions can legitimize policies people may not actually prefer. — tap to centre the map on it
Stereotypes of the past lead people to misperceive attitude change, and those misperceptions can legitimize policies people may not actually prefer.
Last stated 5 years ago
7 Mar 2022
AM
Adam Mastroianni — holds since 2022-03-07 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints. — tap to centre the map on it
A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints.
Last stated 2 months ago
17 Sept 2026
VR
Venkatesh Rao — holds since 2026-09-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation. — tap to centre the map on it
A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation.
Last stated 3 months ago
19 Aug 2026
KR
Kenneth Reitz — holds since 2026-08-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A small amount of friction is enough to reshape a behavior, because most wants are not strong enough to survive a minor inconvenience. — tap to centre the map on it
A small amount of friction is enough to reshape a behavior, because most wants are not strong enough to survive a minor inconvenience.
Last stated 10 months ago
1 Jan 2026
JC
James Clear — holds since 2026-01-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A society cannot remove the desire for status, only change what earns it. — tap to centre the map on it
A society cannot remove the desire for status, only change what earns it.
Last stated 2 months ago
6 Sept 2026
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Rob Henderson — holds since 2026-09-06 — tap for who they are
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Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Last stated 9 Jun 2026 · 5 months ago
Holds Adam Grant
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When a system's incentives produce bad behaviour, the blame belongs entirely to whoever created the incentives.
Last stated 25 Jan 2022 · 5 years ago
Holds Marc Andreessen
Similar wording
When someone gets the same negative reaction from many different people, the more likely explanation is their own behavior, not everyone else's.
Last stated 14 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Ava Huang
Similar wording
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 22 Mar 1894 · 133 years ago
Holds Rabindranath Tagore
Similar wording
To understand people unlike us, listening to what they say works better than assuming we know what it is like to be them.
Last stated 2 Jan 2024 · 3 years ago
Holds Paul Bloom
Similar wording
Disasters come from organisational conditions, not from bad individuals, so blaming a person prevents the fix.
Last stated 13 Jan 2013 · 14 years ago
Holds Wayne Hale
Similar wording
Even when advice is understood and believed, people discount it by assuming their own case is the exception.
Last stated 14 Mar 2023 · 4 years ago
Holds Adam Mastroianni
Similar wording
Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person.
Last stated 2 Oct 2026 · a month ago
Holds Priya Parker
Similar wording
Finding yourself attacking a particular group referred to in the post is evidence that you are evil.
Last stated 13 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Paul Graham
Same subject: attitude change
Imaginary social trends can spuriously shape people's real beliefs and behaviors.
Last stated 7 Mar 2022 · 5 years ago
Holds Adam Mastroianni
Same subject: attitude change
Public scrutiny of a new technology tends to jump only after a deadly incident, otherwise rising slowly over decades
Last stated 15 Jan 2026 · 10 months ago
Holds Miles Brundage
Same subject: attitude change
Public sentiment is turning against tech companies that force unwanted features on their users.
Last stated 28 Apr 2026 · 6 months ago
Holds Anil Dash
Same subject: behavioural science
Public sentiment on AI is shifting steadily toward greater concern about its risks, not less.
Last stated 11 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Casey Newton
Same subject: behavioural science
Stereotypes of the past lead people to misperceive attitude change, and those misperceptions can legitimize policies people may not actually prefer.
Last stated 7 Mar 2022 · 5 years ago
Holds Adam Mastroianni
Same subject: behavioural science
A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints.
Last stated 17 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Venkatesh Rao
Same subject: motivation
A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation.
Last stated 19 Aug 2026 · 3 months ago
Holds Kenneth Reitz
Same subject: motivation
A small amount of friction is enough to reshape a behavior, because most wants are not strong enough to survive a minor inconvenience.
Last stated 1 Jan 2026 · 10 months ago
Holds James Clear
Same subject: motivation
A society cannot remove the desire for status, only change what earns it.
Last stated 6 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Rob Henderson