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17 connected korrents · 15 moments from 31 Oct 2020 to 21 Oct 2026.

Everything filed under behavioural science behavioural science Everything filed under Attachment theory Attachment theory Everything filed under attitude change attitude change Everything filed under design design Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Intimacy can become intrusion rather than closeness Intimacy can become intrusion rather thancloseness EP Esther Perel — holds since c. 2006 — tap for who they are Same subject: The more personal or relational an interaction is, the more AI-generated content in it tends to cheapen it and degrade trust, unless AI has been specifically invited in. — tap to centre the map on it The more personal or relational aninteraction is, the moreAI-generated content in it tends tocheapen it and degrade trust, unlessAI has been specifically invited in. Last stated 2 months ago 14 Sept 2026 CM Charity Majors — holds since 2026-09-14 — tap for who they are Same subject: Being attentive and engaged is a better way to live in general — tap to centre the map on it Being attentive and engaged is abetter way to live in general Last stated 2 weeks ago 21 Oct 2026 RW Rob Walker — holds since 2026-10-21 — tap for who they are Same subject: Institutions are the key to trust between millions of strangers, because intimacy cannot scale — tap to centre the map on it Institutions are the key to trustbetween millions of strangers,because intimacy cannot scale Last stated 2 years ago 28 Oct 2024 YH Yuval Noah Harari — holds since 2024-10-28 — tap for who they are Same subject: A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment. — tap to centre the map on it A person cannot both protectthemselves emotionally and buildintimacy with a partner at the samemoment. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Most friends are not friends but acquaintances. — tap to centre the map on it Most friends are not friends butacquaintances. Last stated 6 years ago 31 Oct 2020 JS Julian Shapiro — holds since 2020-10-31 — tap for who they are Same subject: Living through someone else is easier than becoming complete yourself — tap to centre the map on it Living through someone else iseasier than becoming completeyourself BF Betty Friedan — holds since c. 1963 — tap for who they are Same subject: Humans like to be with other humans, and that very real phenomenon will matter as AI changes work. — tap to centre the map on it Humans like to be with other humans,and that very real phenomenon willmatter as AI changes work. Last stated 4 months ago 29 Jun 2026 DA Daniela Amodei — holds since 2026-06-29 — tap for who they are Same subject: People who do not yet trust each other are better served by tightly limited ways to interact. — tap to centre the map on it People who do not yet trust eachother are better served by tightlylimited ways to interact. Last stated 4 years ago 1 Jan 2023 DC Daniel Cook — holds since 2023-01-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. — tap to centre the map on it A pursue-withdraw dynamic betweenpartners is self-sustaining and doesnot require either person to be atfault. Last stated 3 months ago 13 Aug 2026 TR Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Attachment patterns tend to surface most clearly in the situations that carry the greatest emotional risk. — tap to centre the map on it Attachment patterns tend to surfacemost clearly in the situations thatcarry the greatest emotional risk. Last stated 5 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: Early childhood contact with parents shapes a person's capacity for connection in all their later relationships. — tap to centre the map on it Early childhood contact with parentsshapes a person's capacity forconnection in all their laterrelationships. Last stated a month ago 26 Sept 2026 MP Maria Popova — holds since 2026-09-26 — tap for who they are Same subject: A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints. — tap to centre the map on it A belief system combining cosmicstakes, privileged knowledge,personal vocation and an imperativeto act can license extraordinarybehavior when it conflicts withordinary constraints. Last stated a month ago 17 Sept 2026 VR Venkatesh Rao — holds since 2026-09-17 — tap for who they are Same subject: A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally. — tap to centre the map on it A cancellation-reason drop-downmeasures list order rather thanreasons: randomise the options andevery one of them gets pickedequally. Last stated 9 months ago 25 Jan 2026 JC Jason Cohen — holds since 2026-01-25 — tap for who they are Same subject: A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck. — tap to centre the map on it A decision cannot be judged by itsoutcome, because good decisions failthrough no fault of the decider andbad ones succeed by luck. Last stated 4 years ago 9 Aug 2022 GK Gary Klein — holds since 2022-08-09 — tap for who they are Same subject: Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition — tap to centre the map on it Being professionally offended byevery little thing is no longer adominant disposition Last stated 2 years ago 6 Nov 2024 DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-11-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds. — tap to centre the map on it Blaming and shaming people onlymakes them defensive, dig in theirheels, or tune out, rather thanchange their minds. Last stated 5 months ago 9 Jun 2026 AG Adam Grant — holds since 2026-06-09 — tap for who they are Same subject: Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today. — tap to centre the map on it Decades of warnings about an AIapocalypse do not justify muchconcern today. Last stated 2 months ago 12 Sept 2026 PF Paul Ford — holds since 2026-09-12 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Intimacy can become intrusion rather than closeness Last stated c. 2006 Holds Esther Perel Read this korrent →