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← Living through someone else is easier than becoming complete yourself

17 connected korrents · 14 moments from 13 May 2007 to 21 Oct 2026.

Everything filed under Psychotherapy Psychotherapy Everything filed under happiness happiness Everything filed under curiosity curiosity Everything filed under AI sentience AI sentience Everything filed under courage courage Everything filed under EMDR EMDR Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Living through someone else is easier than becoming complete yourself Living through someone else is easier thanbecoming complete yourself BF Betty Friedan — holds since c. 1963 — tap for who they are Same subject: The more a person has within themselves, the less they want from other people — tap to centre the map on it The more a person has withinthemselves, the less they want fromother people AS Arthur Schopenhauer — holds since c. 1851 — tap for who they are Same subject: Being attentive and engaged is a better way to live in general — tap to centre the map on it Being attentive and engaged is abetter way to live in general Last stated 2 weeks ago 21 Oct 2026 RW Rob Walker — holds since 2026-10-21 — tap for who they are Same subject: Everything is harder than it seems, because there are always hidden details. — tap to centre the map on it Everything is harder than it seems,because there are always hiddendetails. Last stated 11 months ago 18 Nov 2025 RS Ryan Singer — holds since 2025-11-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: In the mind, it is more the rule than the exception for the past to survive — tap to centre the map on it In the mind, it is more the rulethan the exception for the past tosurvive SF Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are Same subject: On almost any metric, the past was not a better time to be alive. — tap to centre the map on it On almost any metric, the past wasnot a better time to be alive. Last stated 3 years ago 8 Dec 2023 AD Annie Duke — holds since 2023-12-08 — tap for who they are Same subject: Advancing in life depends more on what one learns later than on what one already knows — tap to centre the map on it Advancing in life depends more onwhat one learns later than on whatone already knows Last stated 19 years ago 13 May 2007 CM Charlie Munger — holds since 2007-05-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: Talk of helping others is an easier place to hide than transforming oneself. — tap to centre the map on it Talk of helping others is an easierplace to hide than transformingoneself. Last stated 3 years ago 23 Apr 2024 KG Kapil Gupta — holds since 2024-04-23 — tap for who they are Same subject: Few people have the courage to admit that their life and work are not that complicated. — tap to centre the map on it Few people have the courage to admitthat their life and work are notthat complicated. Last stated 2 years ago 24 Aug 2024 DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-08-24 — tap for who they are Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it "Evidence-based therapy" is abranding term rather than ascientific one, and in practice itis a code word for "notpsychodynamic". Last stated 13 years ago 2 Oct 2013 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable. — tap to centre the map on it A couples therapist starts byvalidating where people are, not byasking them to be vulnerable. Last stated 3 years ago 15 May 2023 SJ Sue Johnson — holds since 2023-05-15 — tap for who they are Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it A culture that emphasizesself-esteem over self-knowledgeleaves people less equipped toresist doing monstrous things. Last stated a year ago 8 Sept 2025 GS Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are Same subject: A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work. — tap to centre the map on it A therapy is only shown to be moreeffective if it is compared againstanother treatment intended to help,not against a control nobodyexpected to work. Last stated 2 years ago 11 Sept 2024 SM Scott D. Miller — holds since 2024-09-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences. — tap to centre the map on it EMDR gives clinicians an efficientway to address psychological andphysical symptoms stemming fromadverse life experiences. Last stated 13 years ago 1 Mar 2014 FS Francine Shapiro — holds since 2014-03-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing. — tap to centre the map on it EMDR is an eight-phase treatmentthat starts with history-taking tofind the memories and currentsituations that need addressing. Last stated 16 years ago 19 Mar 2011 FS Francine Shapiro — holds since 2011-03-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood. — tap to centre the map on it In schema therapy the therapeuticrelationship itself supplies theattunement that was missing inchildhood. Last stated 7 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissism runs along a spectrumrather than being a category, andschema therapy treats it by workingback to what early life embedded. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT. — tap to centre the map on it Schema therapy was designed forentrenched patterns that do notrespond well to traditional CBT. Last stated 7 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Living through someone else is easier than becoming complete yourself Last stated c. 1963 Holds Betty Friedan Read this korrent →