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Everything filed under Psychotherapy Psychotherapy Everything filed under friendship friendship Everything filed under Narcissism Narcissism Everything filed under management management Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Most friends are not friends but acquaintances. Most friends are not friends butacquaintances. Last stated 6 years ago 31 Oct 2020 JS Julian Shapiro — holds since 2020-10-31 — tap for who they are Same subject: Have no friends who are not your equals — tap to centre the map on it Have no friends who are not yourequals CO Confucius — holds since c. 551–479 BCE — tap for who they are Same subject: Do not take evil-doers or low people for friends; have the virtuous, the best of people, for friends — tap to centre the map on it Do not take evil-doers or low peoplefor friends; have the virtuous, thebest of people, for friends GB Gautama Buddha — holds since c. 500–401 BCE — tap for who they are Same subject: Humans are not individuals but dividuals — tap to centre the map on it Humans are not individuals butdividuals YH Yuval Noah Harari — holds since c. 2015–2017 — tap for who they are Same subject: People who are highly narcissistic do not make the best friends, even if they are popular at first. — tap to centre the map on it People who are highly narcissisticdo not make the best friends, evenif they are popular at first. Last stated 2 months ago 10 Sept 2026 RH Rob Henderson — holds since 2026-09-10 — tap for who they are Same subject: Friendship with the upright, the sincere and the well-informed helps you; friendship with the showy, the smooth and the glib harms you — tap to centre the map on it Friendship with the upright, thesincere and the well-informed helpsyou; friendship with the showy, thesmooth and the glib harms you CO Confucius — holds since c. 551–479 BCE — tap for who they are Same subject: Friendships require ongoing effort and can fade into mere acquaintance without it. — tap to centre the map on it Friendships require ongoing effortand can fade into mere acquaintancewithout it. Last stated 2 months ago 16 Aug 2026 SJ Stefan Judis — holds since 2026-08-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: Knowledge borrowed from someone else is not your own. — tap to centre the map on it Knowledge borrowed from someone elseis not your own. Last stated 2 years ago 24 Oct 2024 KG Kapil Gupta — holds since 2024-10-24 — tap for who they are Same subject: A team performs better when an outsider introduces social friction, even though the group believes it performed worse. — tap to centre the map on it A team performs better when anoutsider introduces social friction,even though the group believes itperformed worse. Last stated 2 months ago 3 Sept 2026 TH Tim Harford — holds since 2026-09-03 — tap for who they are Same subject: Feuds between neighbouring, closely related peoples are a relatively harmless outlet for aggression that makes group cohesion easier — tap to centre the map on it Feuds between neighbouring, closelyrelated peoples are a relativelyharmless outlet for aggression thatmakes group cohesion easier SF Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are Same subject: Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissism runs along a spectrumrather than being a category, andschema therapy treats it by workingback to what early life embedded. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Narcissists can change meaningfully in therapy, though nobody changes completely, and most of the work is persisting with empathic confrontation past the first rebuff. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissists can change meaningfullyin therapy, though nobody changescompletely, and most of the work ispersisting with empathicconfrontation past the first rebuff. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood. — tap to centre the map on it In schema therapy the therapeuticrelationship itself supplies theattunement that was missing inchildhood. Last stated 7 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT. — tap to centre the map on it Schema therapy was designed forentrenched patterns that do notrespond well to traditional CBT. Last stated 7 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it "Evidence-based therapy" is abranding term rather than ascientific one, and in practice itis a code word for "notpsychodynamic". Last stated 13 years ago 2 Oct 2013 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable. — tap to centre the map on it A couples therapist starts byvalidating where people are, not byasking them to be vulnerable. Last stated 3 years ago 15 May 2023 SJ Sue Johnson — holds since 2023-05-15 — tap for who they are Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it A culture that emphasizesself-esteem over self-knowledgeleaves people less equipped toresist doing monstrous things. Last stated a year ago 8 Sept 2025 GS Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Most friends are not friends but acquaintances. Last stated 31 Oct 2020 · 6 years ago Holds Julian Shapiro Read this korrent →