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Everything filed under empathy empathy Everything filed under Narcissism Narcissism Everything filed under CBT CBT Everything filed under EMDR EMDR Everything filed under Psychotherapy Psychotherapy Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Narcissists can change meaningfully in therapy, though nobody changes completely, and most of the work is persisting with empathic confrontation past the first rebuff. Narcissists can change meaningfully intherapy, though nobody changes completely,and most of the work is persisting withempathic confrontation past the firstrebuff. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissism runs along a spectrumrather than being a category, andschema therapy treats it by workingback to what early life embedded. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Nobody living with a narcissist should feel obliged to become their therapist. — tap to centre the map on it Nobody living with a narcissistshould feel obliged to become theirtherapist. Last stated 6 years ago 30 Jul 2020 WB Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Feuds between neighbouring, closely related peoples are a relatively harmless outlet for aggression that makes group cohesion easier — tap to centre the map on it Feuds between neighbouring, closelyrelated peoples are a relativelyharmless outlet for aggression thatmakes group cohesion easier SF Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are Same subject: People who are highly narcissistic do not make the best friends, even if they are popular at first. — tap to centre the map on it People who are highly narcissisticdo not make the best friends, evenif they are popular at first. Last stated a month ago 10 Sept 2026 RH Rob Henderson — holds since 2026-09-10 — tap for who they are Same subject: Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. — tap to centre the map on it Assuming stupidity rather thanmalice changes the response: empathyand clarity instead ofdefensiveness. Last stated 2 years ago 16 Nov 2024 SP Shane Parrish — holds since 2024-11-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. — tap to centre the map on it Being an excellent programmer is aburden rather than an advantage whenlearning to work with coding agents. Last stated 8 months ago 12 Feb 2026 LF Lex Fridman — holds since 2026-02-12 — tap for who they are Same subject: Beyond user empathy and systems thinking, building agents needs a relentlessness to try things and keep iterating. — tap to centre the map on it Beyond user empathy and systemsthinking, building agents needs arelentlessness to try things andkeep iterating. Last stated a month ago 10 Sept 2026 TS Tara Seshan — holds since 2026-09-10 — tap for who they are Same subject: Creativity is a choice: extending empathy to the person being served and announcing something into the future that might not work. — tap to centre the map on it Creativity is a choice: extendingempathy to the person being servedand announcing something into thefuture that might not work. Last stated 3 years ago 26 Mar 2024 SG Seth Godin — holds since 2024-03-26 — tap for who they are Same subject: EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing. — tap to centre the map on it EMDR is an eight-phase treatmentthat starts with history-taking tofind the memories and currentsituations that need addressing. Last stated 16 years ago 19 Mar 2011 FS Francine Shapiro — holds since 2011-03-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: EMDR targets specific memories well but is not built for identity work or building a life narrative. — tap to centre the map on it EMDR targets specific memories wellbut is not built for identity workor building a life narrative. Last stated 6 months ago 7 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-07 — tap for who they are Same subject: Eye movement reprocessing went from alternative to establishment, and moving your eyes while talking about a trauma does seem to help you process it. — tap to centre the map on it Eye movement reprocessing went fromalternative to establishment, andmoving your eyes while talking abouta trauma does seem to help youprocess it. Last stated 7 years ago 12 Nov 2019 SA Scott Alexander — holds since 2019-11-12 — tap for who they are Same subject: In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood. — tap to centre the map on it In schema therapy the therapeuticrelationship itself supplies theattunement that was missing inchildhood. Last stated 6 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT. — tap to centre the map on it Schema therapy was designed forentrenched patterns that do notrespond well to traditional CBT. Last stated 6 months ago 6 Apr 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are Same subject: Action comes before motivation: you do first and feel afterwards, not the other way round. — tap to centre the map on it Action comes before motivation: youdo first and feel afterwards, notthe other way round. Last stated a year ago 30 Sept 2025 LF Lex Fridman — holds since 2025-09-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: CBT helps people cope but does not reach the core problems people have. — tap to centre the map on it CBT helps people cope but does notreach the core problems people have. Last stated 16 years ago 4 Aug 2010 LG Leslie Greenberg — holds since 2010-08-04 — tap for who they are Same subject: Dreading a future experience causes much of human suffering by making that imagined suffering happen now. — tap to centre the map on it Dreading a future experience causesmuch of human suffering by makingthat imagined suffering happen now. Last stated 4 months ago 23 Jun 2026 SC Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-06-23 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Narcissists can change meaningfully in therapy, though nobody changes completely, and most of the work is persisting with empathic confrontation past the first rebuff. Last stated 30 Jul 2020 · 6 years ago Holds Wendy Behary Read this korrent →