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← If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down.

17 connected korrents · 13 moments from 2 Nov 2004 to 7 Oct 2026.

Everything filed under happiness happiness Everything filed under ambition ambition Everything filed under empathy empathy Everything filed under motivation motivation Everything filed under America America Everything filed under CBT CBT Everything filed under agency agency Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down. If you do not accept your own feelings youcannot connect with other people's, andmay shut them down. Last stated 6 years ago 21 Apr 2020 EP Esther Perel — holds since 2020-04-21 — tap for who they are Same subject: Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others. — tap to centre the map on it Letting go of the belief thatgrasping brings satisfaction makes aperson happier but more alienatedfrom others. Last stated 3 weeks ago 18 Sept 2026 SC Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-09-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: Shunning people with controversial views is a self-defeating strategy. — tap to centre the map on it Shunning people with controversialviews is a self-defeating strategy. Last stated 5 days ago 7 Oct 2026 NS Noah Smith — holds since 2026-10-07 — tap for who they are Same subject: Empathy for your own group is worth little if it leads you to devalue other groups; you can care about people's feelings without sharing them. — tap to centre the map on it Empathy for your own group is worthlittle if it leads you to devalueother groups; you can care aboutpeople's feelings without sharingthem. Last stated 7 years ago 1 Dec 2019 AG Adam Grant — holds since 2019-12-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: Feelings people are told not to feel are stored inside, and a later loss can make them break down. — tap to centre the map on it Feelings people are told not to feelare stored inside, and a later losscan make them break down. Last stated 22 years ago 2 Nov 2004 LG Leslie Greenberg — holds since 2004-11-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: What pains a person is not the external thing but their own judgement about it, which they have the power to wipe out — tap to centre the map on it What pains a person is not theexternal thing but their ownjudgement about it, which they havethe power to wipe out MA Marcus Aurelius — holds since c. 171–175 CE — tap for who they are Same subject: People only truly grasp the harm of a gatekeeping rule once that same rule is turned against their own work. — tap to centre the map on it People only truly grasp the harm ofa gatekeeping rule once that samerule is turned against their ownwork. Last stated 5 months ago 15 May 2026 YX Yihui Xie — holds since 2026-05-15 — tap for who they are Same subject: Accepting life's realities brings success and power; denying or running from them does not — tap to centre the map on it Accepting life's realities bringssuccess and power; denying orrunning from them does not RG Robert Greene — holds since c. 2010 — tap for who they are Same subject: People who cannot feel the littleness of their own great things tend to overlook the greatness of little things in others — tap to centre the map on it People who cannot feel thelittleness of their own great thingstend to overlook the greatness oflittle things in others OK Okakura Kakuzō — holds since c. 1906 — tap for who they are Same subject: A free person thinks about death least of all; their wisdom is a meditation on life, not death — tap to centre the map on it A free person thinks about deathleast of all; their wisdom is ameditation on life, not death BS Baruch Spinoza — holds since c. 1661–1675 — tap for who they are Same subject: A good life is forged from the very things that make it hard, since joy and pain in relationships come together. — tap to centre the map on it A good life is forged from the verythings that make it hard, since joyand pain in relationships cometogether. Last stated 4 years ago 13 Jan 2023 RW Robert Waldinger — holds since 2023-01-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: A good life rests on things that demand skill and effort from you, not on goods that arrive requiring none. — tap to centre the map on it A good life rests on things thatdemand skill and effort from you,not on goods that arrive requiringnone. Last stated 2 years ago 16 May 2024 LS L. M. Sacasas — holds since 2024-05-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it A drop in agency is the earliestsign of burnout, arriving before youconsciously notice you are burningout. Last stated 3 years ago 10 Jan 2024 CH Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it A founder who picks an idea becausethe market wants it will give up,because nobody can persist atsomething that was never importantto them. Last stated 2 years ago 19 Jun 2024 AS Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it A general inclination of allhumankind is a perpetual, restlessdesire of power after power thatends only in death TH Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are Same subject: "If you're not growing, you're dying" is truer of the person than of the company. — tap to centre the map on it "If you're not growing, you'redying" is truer of the person thanof the company. Last stated 9 months ago 25 Jan 2026 JC Jason Cohen — holds since 2026-01-25 — tap for who they are Same subject: A common-sense utopia is much closer to the present day than it is to the best futures actually available to us. — tap to centre the map on it A common-sense utopia is much closerto the present day than it is to thebest futures actually available tous. Last stated a year ago 3 Aug 2025 WM William MacAskill — holds since 2025-08-03 — tap for who they are Same subject: A company can run at a fast pace sustainably without constant overwork or undue stress — tap to centre the map on it A company can run at a fast pacesustainably without constantoverwork or undue stress Last stated 4 years ago 4 Nov 2022 DH David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2022-11-04 — tap for who they are
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At the centre If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down. Last stated 21 Apr 2020 · 6 years ago Holds Esther Perel Read this korrent →