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Read this korrent: Let children suffer the natural consequences of their actions rather than over-controlling them
Let children suffer the natural consequences of their actions rather than over-controlling them
HS
Herbert Spencer — holds since c. 1854–1861 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Discipline in self-control can go too far, repressing the soul and distorting pliant natures — tap to centre the map on it
Discipline in self-control can go too far, repressing the soul and distorting pliant natures
Last stated 121 years ago
22 May 1905
NI
Nitobe Inazō — holds since 1905-05-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Overabundance paralyses motivation and willpower, which is why his wealth will be split among more than a hundred heirs and only reach them as adults. — tap to centre the map on it
Overabundance paralyses motivation and willpower, which is why his wealth will be split among more than a hundred heirs and only reach them as adults.
Last stated a year ago
30 Sept 2025
PD
Pavel Durov — holds since 2025-09-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Attitude, not the surrounding circumstances, determines how hard parenting feels. — tap to centre the map on it
Attitude, not the surrounding circumstances, determines how hard parenting feels.
Last stated a year ago
18 Sept 2025
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Nat Eliason — holds since 2025-09-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Kids have their own lives and parents should not try to apply their rules to them. — tap to centre the map on it
Kids have their own lives and parents should not try to apply their rules to them.
Last stated a year ago
14 May 2025
DS
Derek Sivers — holds since 2025-05-14 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Property should circulate, divided more equally among a family's children, rather than entrenched by inheritance of the eldest son — tap to centre the map on it
Property should circulate, divided more equally among a family's children, rather than entrenched by inheritance of the eldest son
Last stated 236 years ago
18 Dec 1790
MW
Mary Wollstonecraft — holds since 1790-12-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Overprotection harms childhood independence — tap to centre the map on it
Overprotection harms childhood independence
Last stated 3 years ago
31 Mar 2024
DH
David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-03-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Self-restraint, though essential to every society, can ruin it when carried to excess — tap to centre the map on it
Self-restraint, though essential to every society, can ruin it when carried to excess
TH
Thomas Henry Huxley — holds since c. 1893–1894 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Children should be told as little as possible and led to discover as much as possible — tap to centre the map on it
Children should be told as little as possible and led to discover as much as possible
HS
Herbert Spencer — holds since c. 1854–1861 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A finite world can support only a finite population, so population growth must eventually reach zero — tap to centre the map on it
A finite world can support only a finite population, so population growth must eventually reach zero
Last stated 58 years ago
13 Dec 1968
GH
Garrett Hardin — holds since 1968-12-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A mass death does not by itself produce a boom afterwards: expecting a pandemic to renew an economy on its own misreads what followed the Black Death. — tap to centre the map on it
A mass death does not by itself produce a boom afterwards: expecting a pandemic to renew an economy on its own misreads what followed the Black Death.
Last stated 6 years ago
4 Jun 2020
AP
Ada Palmer — holds since 2020-06-04 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A model fitted only to trends in its own outcome cannot forecast anything, because it contains no variable anyone could change. — tap to centre the map on it
A model fitted only to trends in its own outcome cannot forecast anything, because it contains no variable anyone could change.
Last stated 2 months ago
20 Aug 2026
LS
Lyman Stone — holds since 2026-08-20 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 3 years ago
10 Jan 2024
CH
Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 2 years ago
19 Jun 2024
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Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
TH
Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "If you're not growing, you're dying" is truer of the person than of the company. — tap to centre the map on it
"If you're not growing, you're dying" is truer of the person than of the company.
Last stated 9 months ago
25 Jan 2026
JC
Jason Cohen — holds since 2026-01-25 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A common-sense utopia is much closer to the present day than it is to the best futures actually available to us. — tap to centre the map on it
A common-sense utopia is much closer to the present day than it is to the best futures actually available to us.
Last stated a year ago
3 Aug 2025
WM
William MacAskill — holds since 2025-08-03 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A company can run at a fast pace sustainably without constant overwork or undue stress — tap to centre the map on it
A company can run at a fast pace sustainably without constant overwork or undue stress
Last stated 4 years ago
4 Nov 2022
DH
David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2022-11-04 — tap for who they are
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Let children suffer the natural consequences of their actions rather than over-controlling them
Last stated c. 1854–1861
Holds Herbert Spencer
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Discipline in self-control can go too far, repressing the soul and distorting pliant natures
Last stated 22 May 1905 · 121 years ago
Holds Nitobe Inazō
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Overabundance paralyses motivation and willpower, which is why his wealth will be split among more than a hundred heirs and only reach them as adults.
Last stated 30 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Pavel Durov
Similar wording
Attitude, not the surrounding circumstances, determines how hard parenting feels.
Last stated 18 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Nat Eliason
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Kids have their own lives and parents should not try to apply their rules to them.
Last stated 14 May 2025 · a year ago
Holds Derek Sivers
Similar wording
Property should circulate, divided more equally among a family's children, rather than entrenched by inheritance of the eldest son
Last stated 18 Dec 1790 · 236 years ago
Holds Mary Wollstonecraft
Similar wording
Overprotection harms childhood independence
Last stated 31 Mar 2024 · 3 years ago
Holds David Heinemeier Hansson
Similar wording
Self-restraint, though essential to every society, can ruin it when carried to excess
Last stated c. 1893–1894
Holds Thomas Henry Huxley
Similar wording
Children should be told as little as possible and led to discover as much as possible
Last stated c. 1854–1861
Holds Herbert Spencer
Same subject: demographics
A finite world can support only a finite population, so population growth must eventually reach zero
Last stated 13 Dec 1968 · 58 years ago
Holds Garrett Hardin
Same subject: demographics
A mass death does not by itself produce a boom afterwards: expecting a pandemic to renew an economy on its own misreads what followed the Black Death.
Last stated 4 Jun 2020 · 6 years ago
Holds Ada Palmer
Same subject: demographics
A model fitted only to trends in its own outcome cannot forecast anything, because it contains no variable anyone could change.
Last stated 20 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Lyman Stone
Same subject: motivation
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 10 Jan 2024 · 3 years ago
Holds Cate Hall
Same subject: motivation
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 19 Jun 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Aravind Srinivas
Same subject: motivation
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
Last stated c. 1651
Holds Thomas Hobbes
Same subject: ambition
"If you're not growing, you're dying" is truer of the person than of the company.
Last stated 25 Jan 2026 · 9 months ago
Holds Jason Cohen
Same subject: ambition
A common-sense utopia is much closer to the present day than it is to the best futures actually available to us.
Last stated 3 Aug 2025 · a year ago
Holds William MacAskill
Same subject: ambition
A company can run at a fast pace sustainably without constant overwork or undue stress
Last stated 4 Nov 2022 · 4 years ago
Holds David Heinemeier Hansson