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← Competition drives skill, and sparing young people the struggle only defers it.
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Read this korrent: Competition drives skill, and sparing young people the struggle only defers it.
Competition drives skill, and sparing young people the struggle only defers it.
Last stated a year ago
30 Sept 2025
LF
Lex Fridman — holds since 2025-09-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A habit only survives difficulty if the person enjoys it, which makes enjoyment a better predictor of persistence than discipline. — tap to centre the map on it
A habit only survives difficulty if the person enjoys it, which makes enjoyment a better predictor of persistence than discipline.
Last stated 10 months ago
1 Jan 2026
JC
James Clear — holds since 2026-01-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Greatness comes from the struggle — tap to centre the map on it
Greatness comes from the struggle
Last stated 14 years ago
15 Jun 2012
BH
Ben Horowitz — holds since 2012-06-15 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Nature tends, though not always fully, toward avoiding competition, which is always harmful to the species — tap to centre the map on it
Nature tends, though not always fully, toward avoiding competition, which is always harmful to the species
PK
Peter Kropotkin — holds since c. 1890–1902 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Relying more and more on one's existing strengths eventually stops being a winning strategy. — tap to centre the map on it
Relying more and more on one's existing strengths eventually stops being a winning strategy.
Last stated 11 months ago
1 Dec 2025
BT
Brandon Taylor — holds since 2025-12-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Finishing is as much a part of motivation as starting, and the two are separate capacities: plenty of energetic people never complete anything. — tap to centre the map on it
Finishing is as much a part of motivation as starting, and the two are separate capacities: plenty of energetic people never complete anything.
Last stated 2 months ago
24 Aug 2026
MH
Masud Husain — holds since 2026-08-24 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Incumbents structurally cannot compete on speed, because the scale and entrenched architecture that make them incumbents are what make them slow. — tap to centre the map on it
Incumbents structurally cannot compete on speed, because the scale and entrenched architecture that make them incumbents are what make them slow.
Last stated 2 years ago
23 Mar 2025
RV
Rahul Vohra — holds since 2025-03-23 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Competition is not the rule among animals or among humans; among animals it is limited to exceptional periods — tap to centre the map on it
Competition is not the rule among animals or among humans; among animals it is limited to exceptional periods
PK
Peter Kropotkin — holds since c. 1890–1902 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Skipping the struggle in a task also means skipping the growth that struggle would have produced. — tap to centre the map on it
Skipping the struggle in a task also means skipping the growth that struggle would have produced.
Last stated 2 months ago
10 Aug 2026
AH
Ann Handley — holds since 2026-08-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A liberal divorce law is wise — tap to centre the map on it
A liberal divorce law is wise
ES
Elizabeth Cady Stanton — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A partner's difficult trait becomes tolerable only if their good qualities outweigh it and you don't feel alone dealing with its effects. — tap to centre the map on it
A partner's difficult trait becomes tolerable only if their good qualities outweigh it and you don't feel alone dealing with its effects.
Last stated a month ago
20 Sept 2026
HN
Haley Nahman — holds since 2026-09-20 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A world where altruists followed expected-value estimates would be one where nearly all of them helped distant strangers instead of the people around them, and that world would be worse. — tap to centre the map on it
A world where altruists followed expected-value estimates would be one where nearly all of them helped distant strangers instead of the people around them, and that world would be worse.
Last stated 15 years ago
18 Aug 2011
HK
Holden Karnofsky — holds since 2011-08-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Governments should pay a lot for children and let the people who respond reveal which cultural compromises are acceptable, rather than deciding in advance which value to give up. — tap to centre the map on it
Governments should pay a lot for children and let the people who respond reveal which cultural compromises are acceptable, rather than deciding in advance which value to give up.
Last stated 3 years ago
3 Oct 2023
RH
Robin Hanson — holds since 2023-10-03 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Improving entertainment technology raises the bar parenthood has to clear, because people have children when it looks more fun than the alternatives. — tap to centre the map on it
Improving entertainment technology raises the bar parenthood has to clear, because people have children when it looks more fun than the alternatives.
Last stated a year ago
1 Jul 2025
AE
Alice Evans — holds since 2025-07-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Most people should get married and have kids much earlier than the current average, and have more of them. — tap to centre the map on it
Most people should get married and have kids much earlier than the current average, and have more of them.
Last stated 2 years ago
13 Jan 2025
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Kent C. Dodds — holds since 2024-12-29 — tap for who they are
KD
Kent C. Dodds — holds since 2025-01-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The expectation that another person can make everything better originates in early childhood experiences of parents as all-powerful. — tap to centre the map on it
The expectation that another person can make everything better originates in early childhood experiences of parents as all-powerful.
Last stated a month ago
21 Sept 2026
JS
Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2026-09-21 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment. — tap to centre the map on it
A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment.
Last stated 2 months ago
13 Aug 2026
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Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault. — tap to centre the map on it
A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault.
Last stated 2 months ago
13 Aug 2026
TR
Terry Real — holds since 2026-08-13 — tap for who they are
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Competition drives skill, and sparing young people the struggle only defers it.
Last stated 30 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Lex Fridman
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A habit only survives difficulty if the person enjoys it, which makes enjoyment a better predictor of persistence than discipline.
Last stated 1 Jan 2026 · 10 months ago
Holds James Clear
Similar wording
Greatness comes from the struggle
Last stated 15 Jun 2012 · 14 years ago
Holds Ben Horowitz
Similar wording
Nature tends, though not always fully, toward avoiding competition, which is always harmful to the species
Last stated c. 1890–1902
Holds Peter Kropotkin
Similar wording
Relying more and more on one's existing strengths eventually stops being a winning strategy.
Last stated 1 Dec 2025 · 11 months ago
Holds Brandon Taylor
Similar wording
Finishing is as much a part of motivation as starting, and the two are separate capacities: plenty of energetic people never complete anything.
Last stated 24 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Masud Husain
Similar wording
Incumbents structurally cannot compete on speed, because the scale and entrenched architecture that make them incumbents are what make them slow.
Last stated 23 Mar 2025 · 2 years ago
Holds Rahul Vohra
Similar wording
Competition is not the rule among animals or among humans; among animals it is limited to exceptional periods
Last stated c. 1890–1902
Holds Peter Kropotkin
Similar wording
Skipping the struggle in a task also means skipping the growth that struggle would have produced.
Last stated 10 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Ann Handley
Same subject: family
A liberal divorce law is wise
Last stated c. 1898
Holds Elizabeth Cady Stanton
Same subject: family
A partner's difficult trait becomes tolerable only if their good qualities outweigh it and you don't feel alone dealing with its effects.
Last stated 20 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Haley Nahman
Same subject: family
A world where altruists followed expected-value estimates would be one where nearly all of them helped distant strangers instead of the people around them, and that world would be worse.
Last stated 18 Aug 2011 · 15 years ago
Holds Holden Karnofsky
Same subject: demographics
Governments should pay a lot for children and let the people who respond reveal which cultural compromises are acceptable, rather than deciding in advance which value to give up.
Last stated 3 Oct 2023 · 3 years ago
Holds Robin Hanson
Same subject: demographics
Improving entertainment technology raises the bar parenthood has to clear, because people have children when it looks more fun than the alternatives.
Last stated 1 Jul 2025 · a year ago
Holds Alice Evans
Same subject: demographics
Most people should get married and have kids much earlier than the current average, and have more of them.
Last stated 13 Jan 2025 · 2 years ago
Holds Kent C. Dodds
Same subject: Attachment theory
The expectation that another person can make everything better originates in early childhood experiences of parents as all-powerful.
Last stated 21 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Jonathan Shedler
Same subject: Attachment theory
A person cannot both protect themselves emotionally and build intimacy with a partner at the same moment.
Last stated 13 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Terry Real
Same subject: Attachment theory
A pursue-withdraw dynamic between partners is self-sustaining and does not require either person to be at fault.
Last stated 13 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Terry Real