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14 connected korrents · 13 moments from 22 Mar 1894 to 2 Oct 2026.
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Read this korrent: An outrage-and-despair cycle hurts only yourself and changes nothing around you.
An outrage-and-despair cycle hurts only yourself and changes nothing around you.
Last stated 2 years ago
20 Jan 2025
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Kate Elliott — holds since 2025-01-20 — tap for who they are
Same subject: When people care about something but feel powerless to change it, their only resort is to lash out. — tap to centre the map on it
When people care about something but feel powerless to change it, their only resort is to lash out.
Last stated a year ago
29 Aug 2025
AK
Andrew Kelley — holds since 2025-08-29 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us — tap to centre the map on it
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 133 years ago
22 Mar 1894
RT
Rabindranath Tagore — holds since 1894-03-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds. — tap to centre the map on it
Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Last stated 5 months ago
9 Jun 2026
AG
Adam Grant — holds since 2026-06-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person. — tap to centre the map on it
Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person.
Last stated 4 weeks ago
2 Oct 2026
PP
Priya Parker — holds since 2026-10-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down. — tap to centre the map on it
If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down.
Last stated 7 years ago
21 Apr 2020
EP
Esther Perel — holds since 2020-04-21 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters — tap to centre the map on it
Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters
ES
Elizabeth Cady Stanton — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. — tap to centre the map on it
Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness.
Last stated 2 years ago
16 Nov 2024
SP
Shane Parrish — holds since 2024-11-16 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. — tap to centre the map on it
Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents.
Last stated 9 months ago
12 Feb 2026
LF
Lex Fridman — holds since 2026-02-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition — tap to centre the map on it
Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition
Last stated 2 years ago
6 Nov 2024
DH
David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-11-06 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today. — tap to centre the map on it
Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today.
Last stated 2 months ago
12 Sept 2026
PF
Paul Ford — holds since 2026-09-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Deliberately shifting a culture is far harder now that everyone can personalise their media and skip past anything they dislike. — tap to centre the map on it
Deliberately shifting a culture is far harder now that everyone can personalise their media and skip past anything they dislike.
Last stated a year ago
1 Jul 2025
AE
Alice Evans — holds since 2025-07-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 3 years ago
10 Jan 2024
CH
Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 2 years ago
19 Jun 2024
AS
Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
TH
Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are
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An outrage-and-despair cycle hurts only yourself and changes nothing around you.
Last stated 20 Jan 2025 · 2 years ago
Holds Kate Elliott
Read this korrent →
Similar wording
When people care about something but feel powerless to change it, their only resort is to lash out.
Last stated 29 Aug 2025 · a year ago
Holds Andrew Kelley
Similar wording
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 22 Mar 1894 · 133 years ago
Holds Rabindranath Tagore
Similar wording
Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Last stated 9 Jun 2026 · 5 months ago
Holds Adam Grant
Similar wording
Hurting someone does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person.
Last stated 2 Oct 2026 · 4 weeks ago
Holds Priya Parker
Similar wording
If you do not accept your own feelings you cannot connect with other people's, and may shut them down.
Last stated 21 Apr 2020 · 7 years ago
Holds Esther Perel
Same subject: empathy
Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters
Last stated c. 1898
Holds Elizabeth Cady Stanton
Same subject: empathy
Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness.
Last stated 16 Nov 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Shane Parrish
Same subject: empathy
Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents.
Last stated 12 Feb 2026 · 9 months ago
Holds Lex Fridman
Same subject: attitude change
Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition
Last stated 6 Nov 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds David Heinemeier Hansson
Same subject: attitude change
Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today.
Last stated 12 Sept 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Paul Ford
Same subject: attitude change
Deliberately shifting a culture is far harder now that everyone can personalise their media and skip past anything they dislike.
Last stated 1 Jul 2025 · a year ago
Holds Alice Evans
Same subject: motivation
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 10 Jan 2024 · 3 years ago
Holds Cate Hall
Same subject: motivation
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 19 Jun 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Aravind Srinivas
Same subject: motivation
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
Last stated c. 1651
Holds Thomas Hobbes