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Why does humility matter?

Top voices on humility: Adam Grant, Nick Cave, Sam Altman, David Heinemeier Hansson and 5 others.

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  1. Humility is what lets you learn, and be right more often

    Marty CaganNick CaveAdam GrantDavid Heinemeier HanssonRyan Holiday

  2. It only works paired with confidence

    Adam GrantDavid Heinemeier Hansson

  3. Self-belief close to arrogance is what the successful have

    Peter SellisSean CarrollSam Altman

  4. Much of what passes for humility is false

    Lyman StoneSean CarrollDavid Heinemeier Hansson

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Humility is what lets you learn, and be right more often

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Humility in product people is not a mere personality trait; its absence contributes directly to the root cause of many failed products.

  1. Marty Cagan Founding partner of Silicon Valley Product Group (SVPG) And yeah, this might sound like a personality trait to you, but it's not. I would argue this contributes directly to the root cause of so many failed products, Marty Cagan: Strong Opinions, loosely held (Lenny & Friends Summit, San Francisco, 10 September 2026)youtube.com · 10 Sept 2026 · 12:15 into the video
    And yeah, this might sound like a personality trait to you, but it's not. I would argue this contributes directly to the root cause of so many failed products,
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The past is not something a maker should discard but something to draw on, and approaching it with humility is what lets the work come out distinct.

  1. Nick Cave Australian songwriter and writer Over time, that fiery intensity ebbed away, and I realised that the past wasn’t something to discard but to respect. How have your beliefs evolved? What did you once hold true in your beliefs that you don't hold now?theredhandfiles.com · 29 Jun 2026
    Over time, that fiery intensity ebbed away, and I realised that the past wasn’t something to discard but to respect.

Argue like you are right and listen like you are wrong, with the humility to know what you do not know.

  1. Adam Grant Organizational psychologist and professor at the Wharton School Argue like you’re right and listen like you’re wrong. Have the humility to know what you don’t know and the curiosity to pursue knowledge and wisdom. Silence Is Not Necessarily Violenceadamgrant.substack.com · 9 Jun 2026
    Argue like you’re right and listen like you’re wrong. Have the humility to know what you don’t know and the curiosity to pursue knowledge and wisdom.

Truth can still be validated, but finding it calls for far more humility about where it lies and how long validating it takes.

  1. David Heinemeier Hansson Creator of Ruby on Rails, CTO of 37signals We can still validate knowledge. But we need far greater humility in where we're going to find said truth, how long it takes to validate it, and our urge to protect ideological paradigms at all cost. Nobody Knows Anythingworld.hey.com · 2 Dec 2022
    We can still validate knowledge. But we need far greater humility in where we're going to find said truth, how long it takes to validate it, and our urge to protect ideological paradigms at all cost.

The better you get at a craft, the humbler it makes you.

  1. Ryan Holiday American author of The Obstacle Is the Way and Ego Is the Enemy When you are pursuing a craft you realize that the better you get, the humbler you are. 25 Ways To Kill The Toxic Ego That Will Ruin Your Liferyanholiday.net · 4 May 2018
    When you are pursuing a craft you realize that the better you get, the humbler you are.

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It only works paired with confidence

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People gravitate toward arrogant leaders in uncertain times because they mistake swagger for strength and skill.

  1. Adam Grant Organizational psychologist and professor at the Wharton School People are more drawn to arrogant leaders in an uncertain world, because they mistake swagger for strength and skill. The Allure of Narcissistic Leaders and the Forgotten Joy of Being Ordinaryadamgrant.substack.com · 24 May 2026
    People are more drawn to arrogant leaders in an uncertain world, because they mistake swagger for strength and skill.
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Confidence without humility breeds arrogance and humility without confidence breeds doubt, so the two belong together.

  1. Adam Grant Organizational psychologist and professor at the Wharton School Confident humility is being secure enough in your expertise and strengths to admit your ignorance and weaknesses. In Think Again, I highlighted evidence that confidence without humility breeds blind arrogance, and humility without confidence yields debilitating doubt. A Key to Better Leadership: Confident Humilityknowledge.wharton.upenn.edu · 6 Dec 2022
    Confident humility is being secure enough in your expertise and strengths to admit your ignorance and weaknesses. In Think Again, I highlighted evidence that confidence without humility breeds blind arrogance, and humility without confidence yields debilitating doubt.

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Self-belief close to arrogance is what the successful have

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A really good product manager has to be very confident, often to the point of bordering on arrogance.

  1. Peter Sellis Former head of product at Discord I think to be a really good really good PM you kind of have to be like really confident and that borders on arrogance a lot of the time. 90 minutes of unfiltered product advice from Snap and Discord’s product chief | Peter Sellisyoutube.com · 20 Sept 2026 · 1:17:01 into the video
    I think to be a really good really good PM you kind of have to be like really confident and that borders on arrogance a lot of the time.
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When somebody accuses you of being arrogant about an idea, almost all they ever mean is that they disagree with you.

  1. Sean Carroll Theoretical physicist at Johns Hopkins University Yeah, it is interesting because, when people react against you by saying you are being arrogant about this, 99.999% of the time, all they mean is I disagree. That’s all they really mean, right? Sean Carroll: General Relativity, Quantum Mechanics, Black Holes & Aliens | Lex Fridman Podcast #428youtube.com · 22 Apr 2024 · 2:27:40 into the video
    Yeah, it is interesting because, when people react against you by saying you are being arrogant about this, 99.999% of the time, all they mean is I disagree. That’s all they really mean, right?

Self-belief is immensely powerful: the most successful people he knows believe in themselves almost to the point of delusion.

  1. Sam Altman Co-founder and CEO of OpenAI Self-belief is immensely powerful. The most successful people I know believe in themselves almost to the point of delusion. How To Be Successfulblog.samaltman.com · 24 Jan 2019
    Self-belief is immensely powerful. The most successful people I know believe in themselves almost to the point of delusion.

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Much of what passes for humility is false

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Calling the fall in birth rates a mystery is not humility but obscurantism: there is already a good causal account of it.

  1. Lyman Stone Demographer we really do have a good causal model of how to think about fertility decline! We Actually Know A Lot About Fertility Declinelymanstone.substack.com · 20 Aug 2026
    we really do have a good causal model of how to think about fertility decline!
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Assuming you are a typical observer in the universe is not humility but a hilariously presumptuous claim that typical observers are like you.

  1. Sean Carroll Theoretical physicist at Johns Hopkins University But then you draw some conclusions from this, and what you end up realizing is you’ve been hilariously presumptuous because by saying, “I’m a typical observer in the universe,” you’re saying, “Typical observers in the universe are like me,” and that is completely unjustified by anything. Sean Carroll: General Relativity, Quantum Mechanics, Black Holes & Aliens | Lex Fridman Podcast #428youtube.com · 22 Apr 2024 · 1:30:37 into the video
    But then you draw some conclusions from this, and what you end up realizing is you’ve been hilariously presumptuous because by saying, “I’m a typical observer in the universe,” you’re saying, “Typical observers in the universe are like me,” and that is completely unjustified by anything.

The best software developers are too keen to downplay their own talent, in their eagerness to look humble.

  1. David Heinemeier Hansson Creator of Ruby on Rails, CTO of 37signals Part of the problem here is that in their eagerness to polish their humbleness, the best software developers seem overly keen to downplay their own talent, competence, or achievements. Not everyone can be the bestworld.hey.com · 4 Aug 2023
    Part of the problem here is that in their eagerness to polish their humbleness, the best software developers seem overly keen to downplay their own talent, competence, or achievements.

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