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17 connected korrents · 15 moments from 9 Mar 1776 to 8 Sept 2026.
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Read this korrent: Love, desire and relationships are not commodities that can be replaced when they disappoint.
Love, desire and relationships are not commodities that can be replaced when they disappoint.
Last stated 9 years ago
21 Sept 2017
EP
Esther Perel — holds since 2017-09-21 — tap for who they are
Same subject: An addiction is not ended by finding something better to put in its place; you do not stop a problem by replacing it. — tap to centre the map on it
An addiction is not ended by finding something better to put in its place; you do not stop a problem by replacing it.
Last stated 2 years ago
22 Mar 2025
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ThePrimeagen — holds since 2025-03-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy. — tap to centre the map on it
Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy.
Last stated 4 months ago
31 May 2026
AW
Annie Wright — holds since 2026-05-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Human desires have always grown faster than the ability to fulfill them. — tap to centre the map on it
Human desires have always grown faster than the ability to fulfill them.
Last stated a month ago
6 Sept 2026
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Anish Acharya — holds since 2026-09-06 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Love makes it possible to bridge the fundamental gap between two people; alienation is refusing to try. — tap to centre the map on it
Love makes it possible to bridge the fundamental gap between two people; alienation is refusing to try.
Last stated a month ago
8 Sept 2026
AH
Ava Huang — holds since 2026-09-08 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Every act of desire involves giving something up, though it rarely feels like sacrifice when you're happy with what you chose. — tap to centre the map on it
Every act of desire involves giving something up, though it rarely feels like sacrifice when you're happy with what you chose.
Last stated 5 months ago
18 May 2026
MA
Mari Andrew — holds since 2026-05-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The expectations we now bring to a partner are contradictory or incompatible, which is a setup for failure. — tap to centre the map on it
The expectations we now bring to a partner are contradictory or incompatible, which is a setup for failure.
Last stated 9 years ago
21 Sept 2017
EP
Esther Perel — holds since 2017-09-21 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Our built-in emotions were tuned for a world that no longer exists, and hunger is one that now fails to guide us correctly. — tap to centre the map on it
Our built-in emotions were tuned for a world that no longer exists, and hunger is one that now fails to guide us correctly.
Last stated 11 months ago
25 Nov 2025
IS
Ilya Sutskever — holds since 2025-11-25 — tap for who they are
Same subject: We get our dinner from traders by appealing to their self-interest, not to their kindness — tap to centre the map on it
We get our dinner from traders by appealing to their self-interest, not to their kindness
Last stated 251 years ago
9 Mar 1776
AS
Adam Smith — holds since 1776-03-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A builder asked to addict users should leave, because there are always other jobs and no amount of money is worth tearing up the fabric of a society. — tap to centre the map on it
A builder asked to addict users should leave, because there are always other jobs and no amount of money is worth tearing up the fabric of a society.
Last stated 4 months ago
7 Jun 2026
TF
Tony Fadell — holds since 2026-06-07 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation. — tap to centre the map on it
A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation.
Last stated 2 months ago
19 Aug 2026
KR
Kenneth Reitz — holds since 2026-08-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A profit motive inside a game holds players there long past the point where they are still enjoying it. — tap to centre the map on it
A profit motive inside a game holds players there long past the point where they are still enjoying it.
Last stated 8 years ago
30 Jan 2019
RK
Raph Koster — holds since 2019-01-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A free person thinks about death least of all; their wisdom is a meditation on life, not death — tap to centre the map on it
A free person thinks about death least of all; their wisdom is a meditation on life, not death
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Baruch Spinoza — holds since c. 1661–1675 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A good life is forged from the very things that make it hard, since joy and pain in relationships come together. — tap to centre the map on it
A good life is forged from the very things that make it hard, since joy and pain in relationships come together.
Last stated 4 years ago
13 Jan 2023
RW
Robert Waldinger — holds since 2023-01-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A good life rests on things that demand skill and effort from you, not on goods that arrive requiring none. — tap to centre the map on it
A good life rests on things that demand skill and effort from you, not on goods that arrive requiring none.
Last stated 2 years ago
16 May 2024
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L. M. Sacasas — holds since 2024-05-16 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 3 years ago
10 Jan 2024
CH
Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 2 years ago
19 Jun 2024
AS
Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
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Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are
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Love, desire and relationships are not commodities that can be replaced when they disappoint.
Last stated 21 Sept 2017 · 9 years ago
Holds Esther Perel
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An addiction is not ended by finding something better to put in its place; you do not stop a problem by replacing it.
Last stated 22 Mar 2025 · 2 years ago
Holds ThePrimeagen
Similar wording
Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy.
Last stated 31 May 2026 · 4 months ago
Holds Annie Wright
Similar wording
Human desires have always grown faster than the ability to fulfill them.
Last stated 6 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Anish Acharya
Similar wording
Love makes it possible to bridge the fundamental gap between two people; alienation is refusing to try.
Last stated 8 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Ava Huang
Similar wording
Every act of desire involves giving something up, though it rarely feels like sacrifice when you're happy with what you chose.
Last stated 18 May 2026 · 5 months ago
Holds Mari Andrew
Similar wording
The expectations we now bring to a partner are contradictory or incompatible, which is a setup for failure.
Last stated 21 Sept 2017 · 9 years ago
Holds Esther Perel
Similar wording
Our built-in emotions were tuned for a world that no longer exists, and hunger is one that now fails to guide us correctly.
Last stated 25 Nov 2025 · 11 months ago
Holds Ilya Sutskever
Similar wording
We get our dinner from traders by appealing to their self-interest, not to their kindness
Last stated 9 Mar 1776 · 251 years ago
Holds Adam Smith
Same subject: Addiction
A builder asked to addict users should leave, because there are always other jobs and no amount of money is worth tearing up the fabric of a society.
Last stated 7 Jun 2026 · 4 months ago
Holds Tony Fadell
Same subject: Addiction
A product that speeds up turning intention into reality increases appetite for continued use, then charges for that continuation.
Last stated 19 Aug 2026 · 2 months ago
Holds Kenneth Reitz
Same subject: Addiction
A profit motive inside a game holds players there long past the point where they are still enjoying it.
Last stated 30 Jan 2019 · 8 years ago
Holds Raph Koster
Same subject: happiness
A free person thinks about death least of all; their wisdom is a meditation on life, not death
Last stated c. 1661–1675
Holds Baruch Spinoza
Same subject: happiness
A good life is forged from the very things that make it hard, since joy and pain in relationships come together.
Last stated 13 Jan 2023 · 4 years ago
Holds Robert Waldinger
Same subject: happiness
A good life rests on things that demand skill and effort from you, not on goods that arrive requiring none.
Last stated 16 May 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds L. M. Sacasas
Same subject: motivation
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Last stated 10 Jan 2024 · 3 years ago
Holds Cate Hall
Same subject: motivation
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Last stated 19 Jun 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Aravind Srinivas
Same subject: motivation
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
Last stated c. 1651
Holds Thomas Hobbes