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← Underneath the anger of anxious attachment is unresolved grief about not having been responded to.

11 connected korrents · 10 moments from 18 Aug 2011 to 26 Sept 2026.

Everything filed under Attachment theory Attachment theory Everything filed under Psychotherapy Psychotherapy Everything filed under family family Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Underneath the anger of anxious attachment is unresolved grief about not having been responded to. Underneath the anger of anxious attachmentis unresolved grief about not having beenresponded to. Last stated 5 months ago 29 Apr 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-04-29 — tap for who they are Same subject: Emphasis on work binds the individual to reality more than any other technique of living — tap to centre the map on it Emphasis on work binds theindividual to reality more than anyother technique of living SF Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are Same subject: Avoiding conflict does not actually resolve it, so suppressed feelings build up until they surface all at once. — tap to centre the map on it Avoiding conflict does not actuallyresolve it, so suppressed feelingsbuild up until they surface all atonce. Last stated 4 months ago 11 Jun 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-06-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: Early childhood contact with parents shapes a person's capacity for connection in all their later relationships. — tap to centre the map on it Early childhood contact with parentsshapes a person's capacity forconnection in all their laterrelationships. Last stated a week ago 26 Sept 2026 MP Maria Popova — holds since 2026-09-26 — tap for who they are Same subject: Getting angry quickly in an anxiously attached person is a threat-detection habit their nervous system learned, not a character flaw. — tap to centre the map on it Getting angry quickly in ananxiously attached person is athreat-detection habit their nervoussystem learned, not a characterflaw. Last stated 5 months ago 29 Apr 2026 JM Julie Menanno — holds since 2026-04-29 — tap for who they are Same subject: People pleasing develops as an insecure attachment strategy learned from being valued only for submissiveness. — tap to centre the map on it People pleasing develops as aninsecure attachment strategy learnedfrom being valued only forsubmissiveness. Last stated 2 months ago 9 Aug 2026 AG Adam Grant — holds since 2026-08-09 — tap for who they are Same subject: The expectation that another person can make everything better originates in early childhood experiences of parents as all-powerful. — tap to centre the map on it The expectation that another personcan make everything betteroriginates in early childhoodexperiences of parents asall-powerful. Last stated 2 weeks ago 21 Sept 2026 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2026-09-21 — tap for who they are Same subject: A partner's difficult trait becomes tolerable only if their good qualities outweigh it and you don't feel alone dealing with its effects. — tap to centre the map on it A partner's difficult trait becomestolerable only if their goodqualities outweigh it and you don'tfeel alone dealing with its effects. Last stated 2 weeks ago 20 Sept 2026 HN Haley Nahman — holds since 2026-09-20 — tap for who they are Same subject: A world where altruists followed expected-value estimates would be one where nearly all of them helped distant strangers instead of the people around them, and that world would be worse. — tap to centre the map on it A world where altruists followedexpected-value estimates would beone where nearly all of them helpeddistant strangers instead of thepeople around them, and that worldwould be worse. Last stated 15 years ago 18 Aug 2011 HK Holden Karnofsky — holds since 2011-08-18 — tap for who they are Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it "Evidence-based therapy" is abranding term rather than ascientific one, and in practice itis a code word for "notpsychodynamic". Last stated 13 years ago 2 Oct 2013 JS Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it A culture that emphasizesself-esteem over self-knowledgeleaves people less equipped toresist doing monstrous things. Last stated a year ago 8 Sept 2025 GS Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are Same subject: A culture that only trusts what can be put into words will treat unnamed inner experiences as unreal or as a disorder. — tap to centre the map on it A culture that only trusts what canbe put into words will treat unnamedinner experiences as unreal or as adisorder. Last stated 4 months ago 18 Jun 2026 KR Kenneth Reitz — holds since 2026-06-18 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Underneath the anger of anxious attachment is unresolved grief about not having been responded to. Last stated 29 Apr 2026 · 5 months ago Holds Julie Menanno Read this korrent →