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Narcissism Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Same subject Read this korrent: Being kind is different from being nice: kindness means wanting the best for someone, which sometimes means a tough conversation. Being kind is different from being nice: kindness means wanting the best for someone, which sometimes means a tough conversation. Last stated 6 months ago
12 Apr 2026
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Evan Spiegel — holds since 2026-04-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Kindness comes from honesty the other person can survive, not from vagueness — tap to centre the map on it Kindness comes from honesty the other person can survive, not from vagueness Last stated a week ago
17 Oct 2026
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Kenneth Reitz — holds since 2026-10-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Kindness is what lets people hear feedback; in a hostile workplace people resist it because it does not sound like it is meant to help them grow. — tap to centre the map on it Kindness is what lets people hear feedback; in a hostile workplace people resist it because it does not sound like it is meant to help them grow. Last stated 6 months ago
12 Apr 2026
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Evan Spiegel — holds since 2026-04-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Kindness, fairness and being a good friend all stem from empathy. — tap to centre the map on it Kindness, fairness and being a good friend all stem from empathy. Last stated 11 years ago
31 Jan 2016
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Ken Norton — holds since 2016-01-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: You shouldn't make people earn your help by being perfectly polite while they're having a bad time. — tap to centre the map on it You shouldn't make people earn your help by being perfectly polite while they're having a bad time. Last stated 2 weeks ago
8 Oct 2026
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Sunil Pai — holds since 2026-10-08 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters — tap to centre the map on it Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters
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Elizabeth Cady Stanton — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. — tap to centre the map on it Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. Last stated 2 years ago
16 Nov 2024
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Shane Parrish — holds since 2024-11-16 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. — tap to centre the map on it Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. Last stated 8 months ago
12 Feb 2026
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Lex Fridman — holds since 2026-02-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Feuds between neighbouring, closely related peoples are a relatively harmless outlet for aggression that makes group cohesion easier — tap to centre the map on it Feuds between neighbouring, closely related peoples are a relatively harmless outlet for aggression that makes group cohesion easier
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Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. Last stated 6 years ago
30 Jul 2020
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Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Narcissists can change meaningfully in therapy, though nobody changes completely, and most of the work is persisting with empathic confrontation past the first rebuff. — tap to centre the map on it Narcissists can change meaningfully in therapy, though nobody changes completely, and most of the work is persisting with empathic confrontation past the first rebuff. Last stated 6 years ago
30 Jul 2020
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Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A white feminist does better to ask how they have benefited from being white than to resent the label — tap to centre the map on it A white feminist does better to ask how they have benefited from being white than to resent the label Last stated 9 years ago
31 Dec 2017
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Emma Watson — holds since 2017-12-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being a feminist is more than a single choice; it is an ongoing interrogation of self — tap to centre the map on it Being a feminist is more than a single choice; it is an ongoing interrogation of self Last stated 9 years ago
31 Dec 2017
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Emma Watson — holds since 2017-12-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Excluding anyone from makeup is painful; all women should be included — tap to centre the map on it Excluding anyone from makeup is painful; all women should be included Last stated 9 years ago
8 Sept 2017
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Rihanna — holds since 2017-09-08 — tap for who they are