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Their wordsMost people waste their whole lives going in circles. They act out the same relationship dynamic again and again.
Their wordsIn general, feeling your problems goes so much further than thinking about your problems. Thinking is mostly useful for strategy, and doesn't get you very far when you're not in touch with your emotional state.
Their wordsOther people can check our blind spots for us, and offer general feedback on whether we're delusional or not. Friends who will tell you if you're being delusional are worth their weight in gold.
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