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← We are ashamed of envy because we learn from the cradle to hide our self-love
17 connected korrents · 10 moments from 22 Mar 1894 to 26 May 2026.
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Read this korrent: We are ashamed of envy because we learn from the cradle to hide our self-love
We are ashamed of envy because we learn from the cradle to hide our self-love
BM
Bernard Mandeville — holds since c. 1714–1733 — tap for who they are
Same subject: However much we describe and explain love, falling in love makes us ashamed of our words — tap to centre the map on it
However much we describe and explain love, falling in love makes us ashamed of our words
RU
Rumi — holds since c. 1258–1273 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Ingratitude tears apart the union of the human race more than any vice — tap to centre the map on it
Ingratitude tears apart the union of the human race more than any vice
SE
Seneca — holds since c. 56–62 CE — tap for who they are
Same subject: Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us — tap to centre the map on it
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 133 years ago
22 Mar 1894
RT
Rabindranath Tagore — holds since 1894-03-22 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Envy is ignorance and imitation is suicide — tap to centre the map on it
Envy is ignorance and imitation is suicide
RE
Ralph Waldo Emerson — holds since c. 1841–1847 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated a year ago
8 Sept 2025
GS
Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Benevolence alone is too weak to overcome the strongest impulses of self-love — tap to centre the map on it
Benevolence alone is too weak to overcome the strongest impulses of self-love
AS
Adam Smith — holds since c. 1759–1777 — tap for who they are
Same subject: People feel remorse because they believe themselves free, not because they are free — tap to centre the map on it
People feel remorse because they believe themselves free, not because they are free
FN
Friedrich Nietzsche — holds since c. 1878 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Envy, resentment, revenge and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought, and self-pity gets close to paranoia, which is very hard to reverse — tap to centre the map on it
Envy, resentment, revenge and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought, and self-pity gets close to paranoia, which is very hard to reverse
Last stated 19 years ago
13 May 2007
CM
Charlie Munger — holds since 2007-05-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters — tap to centre the map on it
Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters
ES
Elizabeth Cady Stanton — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. — tap to centre the map on it
Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness.
Last stated 2 years ago
16 Nov 2024
SP
Shane Parrish — holds since 2024-11-16 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. — tap to centre the map on it
Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents.
Last stated 9 months ago
12 Feb 2026
LF
Lex Fridman — holds since 2026-02-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A CEO grading themselves a failure for their mistakes does not help; every CEO makes thousands of mistakes — tap to centre the map on it
A CEO grading themselves a failure for their mistakes does not help; every CEO makes thousands of mistakes
Last stated 14 years ago
15 Jun 2012
BH
Ben Horowitz — holds since 2012-06-15 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A designer's assumption about where a component belongs is a personal assumption and does not mean that the market or the users will react to the component that way. — tap to centre the map on it
A designer's assumption about where a component belongs is a personal assumption and does not mean that the market or the users will react to the component that way.
Last stated 7 months ago
2 Apr 2026
MS
Marvin Schwaibold — holds since 2026-04-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A designer's PRs should be very small and manageable if the designer is not comfortable reviewing or writing the code themselves. — tap to centre the map on it
A designer's PRs should be very small and manageable if the designer is not comfortable reviewing or writing the code themselves.
Last stated 5 months ago
26 May 2026
AM
Andy Madrick — holds since 2026-05-26 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A slot machine triggers the brain’s learning and curiosity pathways while teaching nothing, and that one-way exchange is what makes it contemptuous of the player. — tap to centre the map on it
A slot machine triggers the brain’s learning and curiosity pathways while teaching nothing, and that one-way exchange is what makes it contemptuous of the player.
Last stated 13 years ago
3 Jul 2013
RK
Raph Koster — holds since 2013-07-03 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Acquiring insight into how things work is a worthwhile effort in itself, not only for any payoff — tap to centre the map on it
Acquiring insight into how things work is a worthwhile effort in itself, not only for any payoff
Last stated 19 years ago
17 Oct 2007
PB
Peter Bevelin — holds since 2007-10-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Advancing in life depends more on what one learns later than on what one already knows — tap to centre the map on it
Advancing in life depends more on what one learns later than on what one already knows
Last stated 19 years ago
13 May 2007
CM
Charlie Munger — holds since 2007-05-13 — tap for who they are
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We are ashamed of envy because we learn from the cradle to hide our self-love
Last stated c. 1714–1733
Holds Bernard Mandeville
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Similar wording
However much we describe and explain love, falling in love makes us ashamed of our words
Last stated c. 1258–1273
Holds Rumi
Similar wording
Ingratitude tears apart the union of the human race more than any vice
Last stated c. 56–62 CE
Holds Seneca
Similar wording
Once our pity is aroused, joining others in preying on life insults all that is good in us
Last stated 22 Mar 1894 · 133 years ago
Holds Rabindranath Tagore
Similar wording
Envy is ignorance and imitation is suicide
Last stated c. 1841–1847
Holds Ralph Waldo Emerson
Similar wording
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated 8 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Guy Spier
Similar wording
Benevolence alone is too weak to overcome the strongest impulses of self-love
Last stated c. 1759–1777
Holds Adam Smith
Similar wording
People feel remorse because they believe themselves free, not because they are free
Last stated c. 1878
Holds Friedrich Nietzsche
Similar wording
Envy, resentment, revenge and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought, and self-pity gets close to paranoia, which is very hard to reverse
Last stated 13 May 2007 · 19 years ago
Holds Charlie Munger
Same subject: empathy
Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters
Last stated c. 1898
Holds Elizabeth Cady Stanton
Same subject: empathy
Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness.
Last stated 16 Nov 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Shane Parrish
Same subject: empathy
Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents.
Last stated 12 Feb 2026 · 9 months ago
Holds Lex Fridman
Same subject: humility
A CEO grading themselves a failure for their mistakes does not help; every CEO makes thousands of mistakes
Last stated 15 Jun 2012 · 14 years ago
Holds Ben Horowitz
Same subject: humility
A designer's assumption about where a component belongs is a personal assumption and does not mean that the market or the users will react to the component that way.
Last stated 2 Apr 2026 · 7 months ago
Holds Marvin Schwaibold
Same subject: humility
A designer's PRs should be very small and manageable if the designer is not comfortable reviewing or writing the code themselves.
Last stated 26 May 2026 · 5 months ago
Holds Andy Madrick
Same subject: curiosity
A slot machine triggers the brain’s learning and curiosity pathways while teaching nothing, and that one-way exchange is what makes it contemptuous of the player.
Last stated 3 Jul 2013 · 13 years ago
Holds Raph Koster
Same subject: curiosity
Acquiring insight into how things work is a worthwhile effort in itself, not only for any payoff
Last stated 17 Oct 2007 · 19 years ago
Holds Peter Bevelin
Same subject: curiosity
Advancing in life depends more on what one learns later than on what one already knows
Last stated 13 May 2007 · 19 years ago
Holds Charlie Munger