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Read this korrent: Enjoying something exclusively usually shuts you out of truly enjoying it
Enjoying something exclusively usually shuts you out of truly enjoying it
HT
Henry David Thoreau — holds since c. 1851–1862 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The fullest enjoyment comes from reducing the ego to zero, not extending it — tap to centre the map on it
The fullest enjoyment comes from reducing the ego to zero, not extending it
GC
G. K. Chesterton — holds since c. 1905 — tap for who they are
Same subject: When fortunate people find too little enjoyment in life, the cause is generally that they care for nobody but themselves — tap to centre the map on it
When fortunate people find too little enjoyment in life, the cause is generally that they care for nobody but themselves
JM
John Stuart Mill — holds since c. 1861 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others. — tap to centre the map on it
Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others.
Last stated a month ago
18 Sept 2026
SC
Sasha Chapin — holds since 2026-09-18 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Removing your own ability to retreat is how you make yourself follow through on a hard change. — tap to centre the map on it
Removing your own ability to retreat is how you make yourself follow through on a hard change.
Last stated 4 years ago
20 Apr 2023
DS
Derek Sivers — holds since 2023-04-20 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being content with little is a great good, and those who least need luxury enjoy it most — tap to centre the map on it
Being content with little is a great good, and those who least need luxury enjoy it most
EP
Epicurus — holds since c. 341–270 BCE — tap for who they are
Same subject: To have fun in life, one should stop avoiding risk and uncertainty. — tap to centre the map on it
To have fun in life, one should stop avoiding risk and uncertainty.
Last stated yesterday
31 Oct 2026
FC
François Chollet — holds since 2026-10-31 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Living according to a genuine purpose brings sacrifice, stress and pain rather than constant enjoyment. — tap to centre the map on it
Living according to a genuine purpose brings sacrifice, stress and pain rather than constant enjoyment.
Last stated 11 months ago
5 Dec 2025
MM
Mark Manson — holds since 2025-12-05 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Letting oneself be seduced by the narrative of someone with strong views and believing it fully can show its nooks and crannies, as long as one then comes back to the centre. — tap to centre the map on it
Letting oneself be seduced by the narrative of someone with strong views and believing it fully can show its nooks and crannies, as long as one then comes back to the centre.
Last stated 6 years ago
13 Oct 2020
CP
Chamath Palihapitiya — holds since 2020-10-13 — tap for who they are
Same subject: "Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic". — tap to centre the map on it
"Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic".
Last stated 13 years ago
2 Oct 2013
JS
Jonathan Shedler — holds since 2013-10-02 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable. — tap to centre the map on it
A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable.
Last stated 3 years ago
15 May 2023
SJ
Sue Johnson — holds since 2023-05-15 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things. — tap to centre the map on it
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated a year ago
8 Sept 2025
GS
Guy Spier — holds since 2025-09-08 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work. — tap to centre the map on it
A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work.
Last stated 2 years ago
11 Sept 2024
SM
Scott D. Miller — holds since 2024-09-11 — tap for who they are
Same subject: EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences. — tap to centre the map on it
EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences.
Last stated 13 years ago
1 Mar 2014
FS
Francine Shapiro — holds since 2014-03-01 — tap for who they are
Same subject: EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing. — tap to centre the map on it
EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing.
Last stated 16 years ago
19 Mar 2011
FS
Francine Shapiro — holds since 2011-03-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood. — tap to centre the map on it
In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood.
Last stated 7 months ago
6 Apr 2026
AW
Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded. — tap to centre the map on it
Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded.
Last stated 6 years ago
30 Jul 2020
WB
Wendy Behary — holds since 2020-07-30 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT. — tap to centre the map on it
Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT.
Last stated 7 months ago
6 Apr 2026
AW
Annie Wright — holds since 2026-04-06 — tap for who they are
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Enjoying something exclusively usually shuts you out of truly enjoying it
Last stated c. 1851–1862
Holds Henry David Thoreau
Read this korrent →
Similar wording
The fullest enjoyment comes from reducing the ego to zero, not extending it
Last stated c. 1905
Holds G. K. Chesterton
Similar wording
When fortunate people find too little enjoyment in life, the cause is generally that they care for nobody but themselves
Last stated c. 1861
Holds John Stuart Mill
Similar wording
Letting go of the belief that grasping brings satisfaction makes a person happier but more alienated from others.
Last stated 18 Sept 2026 · a month ago
Holds Sasha Chapin
Similar wording
Removing your own ability to retreat is how you make yourself follow through on a hard change.
Last stated 20 Apr 2023 · 4 years ago
Holds Derek Sivers
Similar wording
Being content with little is a great good, and those who least need luxury enjoy it most
Last stated c. 341–270 BCE
Holds Epicurus
Similar wording
To have fun in life, one should stop avoiding risk and uncertainty.
Last stated 31 Oct 2026 · yesterday
Holds François Chollet
Similar wording
Living according to a genuine purpose brings sacrifice, stress and pain rather than constant enjoyment.
Last stated 5 Dec 2025 · 11 months ago
Holds Mark Manson
Similar wording
Letting oneself be seduced by the narrative of someone with strong views and believing it fully can show its nooks and crannies, as long as one then comes back to the centre.
Last stated 13 Oct 2020 · 6 years ago
Holds Chamath Palihapitiya
Same subject: Psychotherapy
"Evidence-based therapy" is a branding term rather than a scientific one, and in practice it is a code word for "not psychodynamic".
Last stated 2 Oct 2013 · 13 years ago
Holds Jonathan Shedler
Same subject: Psychotherapy
A couples therapist starts by validating where people are, not by asking them to be vulnerable.
Last stated 15 May 2023 · 3 years ago
Holds Sue Johnson
Same subject: Psychotherapy
A culture that emphasizes self-esteem over self-knowledge leaves people less equipped to resist doing monstrous things.
Last stated 8 Sept 2025 · a year ago
Holds Guy Spier
Same subject: EMDR
A therapy is only shown to be more effective if it is compared against another treatment intended to help, not against a control nobody expected to work.
Last stated 11 Sept 2024 · 2 years ago
Holds Scott D. Miller
Same subject: EMDR
EMDR gives clinicians an efficient way to address psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences.
Last stated 1 Mar 2014 · 13 years ago
Holds Francine Shapiro
Same subject: EMDR
EMDR is an eight-phase treatment that starts with history-taking to find the memories and current situations that need addressing.
Last stated 19 Mar 2011 · 16 years ago
Holds Francine Shapiro
Same subject: Schema therapy
In schema therapy the therapeutic relationship itself supplies the attunement that was missing in childhood.
Last stated 6 Apr 2026 · 7 months ago
Holds Annie Wright
Same subject: Schema therapy
Narcissism runs along a spectrum rather than being a category, and schema therapy treats it by working back to what early life embedded.
Last stated 30 Jul 2020 · 6 years ago
Holds Wendy Behary
Same subject: Schema therapy
Schema therapy was designed for entrenched patterns that do not respond well to traditional CBT.
Last stated 6 Apr 2026 · 7 months ago
Holds Annie Wright