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17 connected korrents · 15 moments from 13 May 2007 to 11 Aug 2026.

Everything filed under empathy empathy Everything filed under language learning language learning Everything filed under curiosity curiosity Everything filed under education education Everything filed under design design Same subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subjectSame subject Read this korrent: Couples do not need to be taught skills; what changes them is a bonding conversation. Couples do not need to be taught skills;what changes them is a bondingconversation. Last stated 3 years ago 15 May 2023 SJ Sue Johnson — holds since 2023-05-15 — tap for who they are Same subject: A lack of education makes women's talk insipid and their solitude unbearable; learning is necessary to make them useful company — tap to centre the map on it A lack of education makes women'stalk insipid and their solitudeunbearable; learning is necessary tomake them useful company MA Mary Astell — holds since c. 1694–1697 — tap for who they are Same subject: Empathy, body language and tone of voice are learnable skills, and expecting the world to adapt to how you are wired is not going to work. — tap to centre the map on it Empathy, body language and tone ofvoice are learnable skills, andexpecting the world to adapt to howyou are wired is not going to work. Last stated 3 months ago 1 Jul 2026 KB Kent Beck — holds since 2026-07-01 — tap for who they are Same subject: Relationships are healed through vulnerability, not optimised by strategy. — tap to centre the map on it Relationships are healed throughvulnerability, not optimised bystrategy. Last stated 4 months ago 31 May 2026 AW Annie Wright — holds since 2026-05-31 — tap for who they are Same subject: Working relationships need to be intentionally redesigned on an ongoing basis, not defined once and left fixed. — tap to centre the map on it Working relationships need to beintentionally redesigned on anongoing basis, not defined once andleft fixed. Last stated 2 months ago 11 Aug 2026 KN Ken Norton — holds since 2026-08-11 — tap for who they are Same subject: Rational discussion needs only a readiness to learn from one's partner in it — tap to centre the map on it Rational discussion needs only areadiness to learn from one'spartner in it KP Karl Popper — holds since c. 1963–1968 — tap for who they are Same subject: As people heal they bring more Self into relationships and stop putting up with what they used to. — tap to centre the map on it As people heal they bring more Selfinto relationships and stop puttingup with what they used to. Last stated a year ago 7 May 2025 RS Richard Schwartz — holds since 2025-05-07 — tap for who they are Same subject: The thing worth teaching is not a language but how to learn languages, because that skill repeats for every language after it. — tap to centre the map on it The thing worth teaching is not alanguage but how to learn languages,because that skill repeats for everylanguage after it. Last stated 2 years ago by 14 Jun 2024 LM Lýdia Machová — holds since 2024-06-14 — tap for who they are Same subject: In choosing what to learn, who is teaching it matters more than what it is, because your existing interests are fairly arbitrary and a good educator is not. — tap to centre the map on it In choosing what to learn, who isteaching it matters more than whatit is, because your existinginterests are fairly arbitrary and agood educator is not. Last stated 3 months ago 30 Jun 2026 GS Grant Sanderson — holds since 2026-06-30 — tap for who they are Same subject: Abolitionists who felt the slave's wrongs were blind to the equal legal wrongs of their own mothers, wives and sisters — tap to centre the map on it Abolitionists who felt the slave'swrongs were blind to the equal legalwrongs of their own mothers, wivesand sisters ES Elizabeth Cady Stanton — holds since c. 1898 — tap for who they are Same subject: Assuming stupidity rather than malice changes the response: empathy and clarity instead of defensiveness. — tap to centre the map on it Assuming stupidity rather thanmalice changes the response: empathyand clarity instead ofdefensiveness. Last stated 2 years ago 16 Nov 2024 SP Shane Parrish — holds since 2024-11-16 — tap for who they are Same subject: Being an excellent programmer is a burden rather than an advantage when learning to work with coding agents. — tap to centre the map on it Being an excellent programmer is aburden rather than an advantage whenlearning to work with coding agents. Last stated 8 months ago 12 Feb 2026 LF Lex Fridman — holds since 2026-02-12 — tap for who they are Same subject: A slot machine triggers the brain’s learning and curiosity pathways while teaching nothing, and that one-way exchange is what makes it contemptuous of the player. — tap to centre the map on it A slot machine triggers the brain’slearning and curiosity pathwayswhile teaching nothing, and thatone-way exchange is what makes itcontemptuous of the player. Last stated 13 years ago 3 Jul 2013 RK Raph Koster — holds since 2013-07-03 — tap for who they are Same subject: Acquiring insight into how things work is a worthwhile effort in itself, not only for any payoff — tap to centre the map on it Acquiring insight into how thingswork is a worthwhile effort initself, not only for any payoff Last stated 19 years ago 17 Oct 2007 PB Peter Bevelin — holds since 2007-10-17 — tap for who they are Same subject: Advancing in life depends more on what one learns later than on what one already knows — tap to centre the map on it Advancing in life depends more onwhat one learns later than on whatone already knows Last stated 19 years ago 13 May 2007 CM Charlie Munger — holds since 2007-05-13 — tap for who they are Same subject: A beginner cannot learn from material made for native speakers: at the start, authentic media is noise. — tap to centre the map on it A beginner cannot learn frommaterial made for native speakers:at the start, authentic media isnoise. Last stated 3 months ago by 20 Jul 2026 SK Steve Kaufmann — holds since 2026-07-20 — tap for who they are Same subject: A language is a set of skills to be built, not a body of facts to be known. — tap to centre the map on it A language is a set of skills to bebuilt, not a body of facts to beknown. Last stated 5 years ago 19 Aug 2021 LL Luca Lampariello — holds since 2021-08-19 — tap for who they are Same subject: A method you hate will end in burnout however well it works for other people, so it should be abandoned rather than endured. — tap to centre the map on it A method you hate will end inburnout however well it works forother people, so it should beabandoned rather than endured. Last stated 6 years ago 9 Sept 2020 LL Luca Lampariello — holds since 2020-09-09 — tap for who they are
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At the centre Couples do not need to be taught skills; what changes them is a bonding conversation. Last stated 15 May 2023 · 3 years ago Holds Sue Johnson Read this korrent →