behavioural science 10
- People pleasing develops as an insecure attachment strategy learned from being valued only for submissiveness.
- Chronic people pleasing stems from a need for others' approval, not genuine concern for them.
Organizational psychologist and professor at the Wharton School. Author of Give and Take, Originals, Think Again and Hidden Potential, host of the Re:Thinking podcast, and writer of the GRANTED newsletter.
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