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17 connected korrents · 10 moments from 10 May 2022 to 17 Sept 2026.
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10 May 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-05-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Everyone needs a balance of fierce and tender self-compassion, like yin and yang. — tap to centre the map on it Everyone needs a balance of fierce and tender self-compassion, like yin and yang. Last stated 4 years ago
10 May 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-05-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Self-compassion is being supportive toward yourself when you suffer, whether from your own mistakes or from life's challenges. — tap to centre the map on it Self-compassion is being supportive toward yourself when you suffer, whether from your own mistakes or from life's challenges. Last stated 4 years ago
12 Aug 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-08-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The first component of self-compassion is mindfulness: the willingness to turn toward and be aware of pain. — tap to centre the map on it The first component of self-compassion is mindfulness: the willingness to turn toward and be aware of pain. Last stated 4 years ago
10 May 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-05-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: People think of compassion only as tender acceptance, though acts like protecting a child are compassion too. — tap to centre the map on it People think of compassion only as tender acceptance, though acts like protecting a child are compassion too. Last stated 4 years ago
10 May 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-05-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Self-compassion is a productive way to approach distressing thoughts and emotions, and it supports mental and physical well-being. — tap to centre the map on it Self-compassion is a productive way to approach distressing thoughts and emotions, and it supports mental and physical well-being. Last stated 4 years ago
12 Aug 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-08-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: The common worries that self-compassion is weak, selfish, self-indulgent or undermines motivation are myths. — tap to centre the map on it The common worries that self-compassion is weak, selfish, self-indulgent or undermines motivation are myths. Last stated 4 years ago
12 Aug 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-08-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Self-compassion has six elements: self-kindness, common humanity and mindfulness, with less self-judgment, isolation and overidentification. — tap to centre the map on it Self-compassion has six elements: self-kindness, common humanity and mindfulness, with less self-judgment, isolation and overidentification. Last stated 4 years ago
12 Aug 2022
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Kristin Neff — holds since 2022-08-12 — tap for who they are
Same subject: People are not gentle creatures who only defend themselves; a strong desire for aggression is part of their instinctual endowment — tap to centre the map on it People are not gentle creatures who only defend themselves; a strong desire for aggression is part of their instinctual endowment
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Sigmund Freud — holds since c. 1930 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints. — tap to centre the map on it A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints. Last stated 4 weeks ago
17 Sept 2026
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Venkatesh Rao — holds since 2026-09-17 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally. — tap to centre the map on it A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally. Last stated 9 months ago
25 Jan 2026
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Jason Cohen — holds since 2026-01-25 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck. — tap to centre the map on it A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck. Last stated 4 years ago
9 Aug 2022
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Gary Klein — holds since 2022-08-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. — tap to centre the map on it A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out. Last stated 3 years ago
10 Jan 2024
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Cate Hall — holds since 2024-01-10 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. — tap to centre the map on it A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them. Last stated 2 years ago
19 Jun 2024
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Aravind Srinivas — holds since 2024-06-19 — tap for who they are
Same subject: A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death — tap to centre the map on it A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
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Thomas Hobbes — holds since c. 1651 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition — tap to centre the map on it Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition Last stated 2 years ago
6 Nov 2024
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David Heinemeier Hansson — holds since 2024-11-06 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds. — tap to centre the map on it Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds. Last stated 4 months ago
9 Jun 2026
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Adam Grant — holds since 2026-06-09 — tap for who they are
Same subject: Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today. — tap to centre the map on it Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today. Last stated 4 weeks ago
12 Sept 2026
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Paul Ford — holds since 2026-09-12 — tap for who they are
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Self-compassion can be fierce as well as tender: protecting yourself, speaking up and taking action.
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Everyone needs a balance of fierce and tender self-compassion, like yin and yang.
Holds
Self-compassion is being supportive toward yourself when you suffer, whether from your own mistakes or from life's challenges.
Holds
The first component of self-compassion is mindfulness: the willingness to turn toward and be aware of pain.
Holds
People think of compassion only as tender acceptance, though acts like protecting a child are compassion too.
Holds
Self-compassion is a productive way to approach distressing thoughts and emotions, and it supports mental and physical well-being.
Holds
The common worries that self-compassion is weak, selfish, self-indulgent or undermines motivation are myths.
Holds
Self-compassion has six elements: self-kindness, common humanity and mindfulness, with less self-judgment, isolation and overidentification.
Holds
People are not gentle creatures who only defend themselves; a strong desire for aggression is part of their instinctual endowment
Last stated c. 1930
Holds
A belief system combining cosmic stakes, privileged knowledge, personal vocation and an imperative to act can license extraordinary behavior when it conflicts with ordinary constraints.
Holds
A cancellation-reason drop-down measures list order rather than reasons: randomise the options and every one of them gets picked equally.
Holds
A decision cannot be judged by its outcome, because good decisions fail through no fault of the decider and bad ones succeed by luck.
Holds
A drop in agency is the earliest sign of burnout, arriving before you consciously notice you are burning out.
Holds
A founder who picks an idea because the market wants it will give up, because nobody can persist at something that was never important to them.
Holds
A general inclination of all humankind is a perpetual, restless desire of power after power that ends only in death
Last stated c. 1651
Holds
Being professionally offended by every little thing is no longer a dominant disposition
Holds
Blaming and shaming people only makes them defensive, dig in their heels, or tune out, rather than change their minds.
Holds
Decades of warnings about an AI apocalypse do not justify much concern today.
Holds