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Our reading
A person cannot expect to find lasting balance between conflicting parts of their psychology.
Their wordsThere's no reason to believe that you will find persistent balance between these conflicting elements of your psychology.
Their wordsUseful philosophies disagree with each other sometimes, and this is only an issue if you expect yourself, or reality, to be philosophically consistent.
Their wordsWe freeze into roles because we need some predictability, but we're also changing internally all the time, so our roles eventually become confining.