The Problem With AI Life Coaching—and My Solution

Mark Manson · 5 Dec 2025

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ChatGPT tends to validate users and avoid uncomfortable truths, reinforcing their existing beliefs instead of challenging them.

Their wordsChatGPT, in particular, seemed to just want to validate me, tell me how great I was, reinforce any bad beliefs I might have had, and avoid saying anything uncomfortable.
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Living according to a genuine purpose brings sacrifice, stress and pain rather than constant enjoyment.

Their wordsBecause when you believe in something, when you become obsessed with something, you sacrifice yourself to it. And that sacrifice actually feels like pain and stress and doubt. Not fun.

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