Our readingWhat is a korrent?
Private responses to online harassers do not change their behavior.
Drawn from what Selena Deckelmann said
What Selena Deckelmann actually said
- Selena Deckelmann American software engineer and engineering leader: PostgreSQL contributor
My experience has been that private responses to people who harass me don’t help. Harassment continues, the harasser does not change.
Where this was said
↗Some thoughts on handling harassment and toxic behavior privatelychesnok.com
All 3 korrents from this piecethis one is 3rd
Added to korrents 1 Nov 2026 · How quotes work · Something wrong? Tell us
Do you hold this korrent?Do you also believe this?
I hold this tooRelated korrents
Not worked out yet — this claim is newer than the last pass. Every hour, each claim that is new or has changed is compared with every other one in the archive; the last pass () came before this claim was recorded. The next is due , and this claim will be in it.